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| ... The peace, quiet and 'space' to be, and to have rest and discover a bit of my 'self' again. Thank you so much! |
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... I had the time to let anxieties and fears rise to the surface like air bubbles in water. The care and compassion, the deep peace and joy that seem to be in the very air enabled me to deal with those fears and left me strengthened and renewed for whatever might lie ahead in the weeks to come.
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| ... It provided exactly what we needed - complete peace and quiet, in beautiful surroundings, so that we could re-charge our batteries and take stock. Thank you for your welcome and for the provision of such a comfortable lodge. We really appreciate the unobtrusive prayerful support of the community and the numerous signs of God's presence. Very many thanks again. |
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| ... Excellent accommodation with the view from the main window really appreciated. The grounds were also enjoyed and the peaceful atmosphere was very welcome. We returned home feeling refreshed and thankful for Sheldon and its staff. |
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| ... Many thanks for all you have done to breathe life into a smouldering wick, to give strength to a broken reed. I am particularly grateful to Sarah and Carl for their help, but I am also aware that the healing atmosphere of this place is created by you all under God. From the excellent food, to a shower head at a height suitable for reasonably tall people, it is your attention to detail and your commitment to good quality that shows the depth of your care. |
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| ... We are so grateful for being able to spend a few days here at Sheldon and experiencing the refreshment of body, mind and soul our break has provided. A sincere "thank you" to you and the other community members for making this possible. |
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~ The beauty of the scenery.
~ The quietness of the setting.
~ The comfortableness of the rooms.
~ The provision of the food.
~ The opportunity to unwind.
~ The sense of the presence of the Lord.
~ The lack of contactability by mobile phone!
~ The space and time given by the residential team.
Can I just say, I thoroughly enjoyed my jacuzzi and body massage - not something I had done before but would highly recommend. Thank you Jan. I do want to ask about "centering" - was this prayer or a spiritual connecting? I wish I had asked more about this as I felt uncomfortable not knowing what was going on at this point. I became aware that Tai Chi music was being played, and felt it was beginning to border on Eastern spirituality and not a massage done by a Christian. But, this was probably because I didn't fully understand what was happening, and perhaps some more explanation would have been helpful. But, I loved it and it was incredibly relaxing. |
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~ It has given me a wonderful place in which to rest, de-stress, rejuvenate and pray and have fun.
~ The care has been unobtrusive, discreet, accepting and affirming.
~ There is an ethos of warmth and compassionate kindness around the place and people - even from those who said nothing.
~ It is restful and nurturing to be in a place that is so warm and comfortable and with delicious food I haven't cooked!
~ The time to watch and listen to the birds and soak up the beauty of spring makes it easy to praise God for creation!
~ I have appreciated the clarity of boundaries and detailed care - even in, for example the excellently described walks. Great library and time to read!
~ I felt a bit awkward about the cost of staying here. The people paying for me to be here actually only allow £250 per retreat/per week. However, the issue is more mine/ours than Sheldon's (I think). I wasn't told of 'our' £250 limit until I'd booked Sheldon!! You do say the costs are a guide only. It is good value! |
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| ... It gave me time alone from ministry and family life for the first time in 15 years. Nothing to distract to, nothing to juggle, no-one else to feed and look after. Thank you. |
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| ... I was given time, space and company as I needed it, without judgment or pressure. I was given a comfortable home for a few days. I was given good food to eat. I was given fresh air and beauty to enjoy and speak to me. I was given time with God in a way I have not had for many a long year. I have found the people here to be trying to follow Christ in a very real way and it shows in all they do - it comes out of the woodwork even. |
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| ... The peace of Sheldon and your helpful but gentle running of the place, gave me the space and time to unwind. Thank you! |
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| ... the space to be able to rest and think under God ... the ministry of care given for mind, body and soul that is important to receive - and to have space to allow that for oneself. |
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... wonderful, quiet relaxing. Holy and restful place. Will come again for longer without doubt. The Sanctuary, garden, walks etc were so lovely and good for restoring the soul. The accommodation was wonderfully comfortable.
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| ... it gave me everything and more that I expected. Welcome, loving care, just beautiful, quiet and peaceful, space and freedom ... perfect! |
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... having stayed before, we knew what a very special place it is. It provides a safe and loving environment where you can fully "retreat" from the pressures of parish life. 'We were able to spend uninterrupted time with God to seek His will for our future ministry and were able to finally make decisions to move forward. It is very difficult to express in words the sense of peace and prayer one feels cocooned in - thank you.
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... it was everything you said it was and more! The standard of provision and comfort is very high. The Sanctuary is a wonderfully moving space that spoke to all my senses and enabled me to worship. Thank you all so much.
... Very practical suggestion - would have used less water if a small washing up bowl was provided - quieter too! |
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... of the opportunity to be quiet, looked after (no meal planning!) in comfortable - no, more than comfortable surroundings. The view from the windows - the blue tits on the feeders - the robin at the window - the deer in the copse - God in heaven and all ok with the world. I can't think of anywhere better suited for a quiet retreat - it was everything I needed.
I would have found my stay more useful/helpful/enjoyable if ... I had remembered last year when I promised myself a longer retreat this year. After four days I am just beginning to feel relaxed enough to allow God to really get to work in me, through me and with me. I pray that what has begun in me will, with God's help and grace, continue despite the pressures of parish life. Thanks to all the team for making and keeping this place so special - for your various ministries in God's service. |
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| ... my need was for three days of solitude for prayerful reflection and planning. My time in the Linhay provided for this in wonderful surroundings. The accommodation was excellent and the food in the larder was ideal, varied and easy to prepare, even for someone with poor cooking skills. I can highly recommend Sheldon as an ideal retreat with friendly, warm and welcoming service. Thank you. |
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... Beautiful healing surroundings. All the small things you have done to make this such a healing place (ie. tea tray, cake and flowers on arrival. Teddy bear. Smiling fish on shower curtains, bird feeder on balcony. Good wholesome easy to prepare food. TV. Everything clean, tidy , no expense spared - made me feel special and valued. Guided walk sheets. Portable payphone.
Very professional help given. I was listened to by people who understood and treated me like an adult and trusting that God would be doing the healing. Enjoyed being left alone but knowing support was there if required. It would be so easy to make fragile people feel dependent on this place but you have provided a resting place, a place of refreshment, and new skill for me to take back down into the valley…Thank you. You have helped me to smile again. |
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... Sheldon provided much needed comfortable space for reflection … and the opportunity to discern several important stepping stones … I appreciated the caring and unobtrusive hospitality of the community. |
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... The Lodge was warm and homely … thoughtful extras rolled in. |
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... The relaxed surroundings and gentle care – I wish I had discovered you before burnout. The stay was too short, but I will return. Highly recommend the massage – never had one before. |
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| ... It provided a peaceful place for convalescence in a safe environment. The facilities are excellent and the provisions were most welcome. For someone with limited mobility the supply of books, DVDs, games and puzzles was a bonus, and the areas set out for quiet reflection were lovely. |
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... Plenty of time and space to reflect and pray. Excellent food and accommodation. Lovely walks in the area and attractive grounds… Accomplished all I came here to do, resourced and ready to re-enter fray! |
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... Beautifully equipped accommodation, lovely views and walks, calm atmosphere and stillness along with the gentle discrete attendance of the community members. It was good to have the DVDs, videos and library available to us and the good stock of basics (eg. tea, cooking oil etc) in the Lodge. The little touches like the houseplants, candles and flowers on the table made Clare's Lodge feel homely and welcoming. All-in-all a delightful and much needed break. Very many thanks.
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... It was good to be in a place where I was neither judged nor cosseted. I felt my autonomy returning. I was able to “waste” time simply being, and completing only domestic tasks in the Lodge. The birds on the feeder made me laugh! The library books provided hours of reassurance and challenge … The silence and the beauty of the place embraced me. Thanks too to Jan for the massage and to the person who settled me into the jacuzzi. Great kindness and sensitivity from everyone, including ground staff.
I would have found my stay more enjoyable if ... it hadn't rained so much – hardly your department! |
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| ... I appreciated my stay a good deal. Thank you for arranging things for me and to Hillary and the ladies in Reception for their welcome … Finally, the grub! The celery and apricot, and parsnip and apple soups were scrummy. |
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| ... I needed space and time out after a very busy year with many critical and wonderful life events. I have been able to just “be” and process and pray through and for all those in my family, my friends and work situations. The Jacuzzi was great fun and I really found Jan's massage amazingly relaxing and enjoyable. Thank you for enabling me to begin to recharge my much depleted batteries. |
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... Everything was perfect with the opportunity to be as quiet as I wanted to be, which was very . The accommodation was superb – everything I needed and more – you seem to pre-empt every need. The view was unsurpassable. |
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| ... Great accommodation, far beyond my expectations. The culinary delights of Martha's kitchen. Undemanding loving acceptance and unintrusive hospitality. … Rolling hills, spreading oaks, sheep, rabbits, deer, birds at the feeder, scent of lavender and rose and honeysuckle … so many special places to sit and be still, from the cushioned alcove in the sanctuary to the wooden swing bench in Dingly Dell. Books and films galore in the library. Space to be still, to be me, to be real, and to know that God is God. … I'll be back. Some tissues in the Lodge and the Sanctuary might be useful. |
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| ... Excellent facilities. Beautiful location. So-o peaceful. Thank you for making our stay so comfortable. |
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| ... Thank you all for a wonderful peaceful stay. I am rested and refreshed. |
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... It was so comfortable and undemanding. Wonderful countryside to walk in, upmarket accommodation and every detail taken care of. I haven't slept so well for years. Great collection of books both old and new. Can recommend to anyone wanting to be in silence for a few days.
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… peaceful surroundings, space to relax, unwind and listen to God. Thank you for providing this oasis! |
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| ... the tranquillity and beauty of the setting, the standard of accommodation and catering and the freedom to do as I wished and the friendliness and helpfulness of the staff. |
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| … you made available to me just what I need: peace, comfort, privacy and space. Many thanks. |
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... the peace and beauty enabled us to 'be'. Stephen's Lodge is comfortable, simple, uncluttered and ideal as a place to withdraw. The food was delicious, the Lodge beautifully clean. The gardens and views exquisite.
We would have found our stay more useful/helpful/enjoyable if ... we had a top sheet on the bed. We found the room quite hot and didn't always need a quilt - however it was chilly without anything! |
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| ... I was in need of a break and you kindly found space for me at short notice. It was the perfect place with the quiet, peaceful surroundings, and all I need to be comfortable in the Lodge. Thank you so much! I wish I could have stayed longer! |
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| ... Linhay provides beautiful accommodation with wonderful views and great countryside as a setting for quality time apart. The larder stock provisions are generous and delicious - but not necessarily good for the figure! A massage is a great bonus as you unwind. |
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... It was so peaceful, safe, unintrusive, but supportive, welcoming, accepting and completely unpressured. Everything had been so carefully thought through and communicated perfectly in the welcome pack/folder in the Lodge. Don't take the teddy away! A wonderful touch! The Sanctuary and private Linhay gardens were just what I needed to be free to be me. The jacuzzi/spa pool was an added bonus - lovely! The grounds are not only beautiful and very carefully mapped out, but tangibly peaceful, and restorative. Normally, whenever I have been away on my own, or been out walking on my own, I have felt a slight awkwardness - rather conspicuous and self-conscious. Never once, did I feel that at Sheldon. That is worth its weight in gold!! Sheldon is a very special place, an absolute treasure for clergy and top of my list of resources! Thank you.
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... We found it the perfect place to rest and relax. The community were on hand if we needed them. The Lodge was exactly what we needed - well equipped, clean and comfortable. The surrounding area was perfect for walks and short drives, which meant we could relax or take exercise as and when we felt like it. The peace of the centre really helped us to think and focus on our situation and future. We came away feeling relaxed and at peace though reluctant to leave.
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~ Great accommodation
~ Good food
~ Sanctuary was wonderful
~ Silence
~ Scenery
~ DVD library!
~ God was there.
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~ the excellent accommodation in the Linhay
~ the delicious home-prepared food
~ the opportunity for quality 1:1 time
~ the beauty and peace of the two chapels and the 'Shepherd's Sanctuary'
~ the walks in the wonderful countryside all around
~ the communities vision of unconditional hospitality, linked with its respect for the "personal space" of each guest.
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| ... My first visit left me hugely impressed! Thank you for providing Christ-like TLC without intrusion. I am mindful that you're providing a desperately needed resource for many and salute your own sacrificial commitment to this end. Clare's Lodge - very comfortable, and all requirements met graciously and again without intrusion. Bless you all - you'll be richly rewarded in Heaven! Bird feeder, Teddy, Snoopy along with ducks in the bath - lovely little additions by which to re-claim one's child's heart! |
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| ... Everything was provided to enable my quiet time to be a real benefit and a joy. The staff were available if needed, helpful when asked, but otherwise unobtrusive. Thank you! |
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| ... The peace and tranquility is refreshing which is enhanced by the hospitality and welcome from theo community. That comes through in the close attention to detail in every aspect of our stay. Being able to participate in the morning and evening worship is particularly special. Thanks to you all. |
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| ... It was just what we needed after a lengthy period of illness. We were able to explore and enjoy the local area, and the Lodge with the stocked larder gave us a very relaxing base. Being supported by the community prayerfully in the background and being able to use the grounds and chapel/sanctuary made for a very special week indeed. Thank you - and our prayers for your life and ministry. |
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| ... It is so peaceful, the surroundings are beautiful, the Lodges are well equipped, very comfortable and with so much thought for the 'extras' - lovely pictures, TV, DVD, radio, CD. I felt really pampered. After daily life of having to be responsive to many people, it was such bliss to be allowed to be quiet and solitary! |
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... We had some lovely weather in a remote rural location such as we would never normally be able to experience as neither of us drive. We had some very pleasant walks and appreciated being able to use the (usually!) quiet spaces around the site for some much needed prayer and reading.
We would have found our stay more useful/helpful/enjoyable if ... while we greatly appreciated all the thought and hard work behind the scenes enabling everything to run smoothly, and we came quite happy to be left on our own, we ended up being a little surprised not to have felt a bit more warmth from the community. But then to be fair, had we been less independent and come more overtly looking for it, no doubt it would have been there for us! The price of the food and accommodation was probably very reasonable given the quality of what is provided, but nevertheless it did work out a little expensive for us compared with other holidays. |
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| ... It was peaceful, restful - we felt protected and secure. Sarah - it was like being wrapped in a warm blanket! Not unobtrusive, but you felt the support was there if needed. Our 2:2 was helpful because it helped us to clarify our present situation and decisions for the future. The Lodges provide everything you need, and very comfortable. Prepared meals excellent. Also a great environment - a lovely place to wander and walk. It is what I describe as a clean and transparent place - where God is in an obvious way, a 'kingdom place'. Thanks for our week. |
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... Sheldon gives the opportunity to relax totally and enjoy the peace, the beauty with God's presence all around.
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... Once again, it was wonderful just to have the space to be quiet, to think and pray - and to be left alone to do it! Thank you for all your careful provision and kindness. The massage at the start helped me to relax and put aside the stress - and I appreciated the chance to chat with Carl. May God bless all that you do!
I would have found my stay more useful/helpful/enjoyable if ... people were asked not to use the payphone in the boiler room underneath the Sanctuary (disturbs those at prayer!) - but to take it back to their rooms. |
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... I have always been a fan - but you are now raised to mythic status! Staying at Sheldon was hugely helpful - why? Because you let me float in and out, come and go, be myself and so forth. And yet, I knew you cared, I knew you prayed, I knew I would have my weekly 'check-up'. I felt safe at Sheldon - and I know I went back feeling a whole 'step' better. I can't begin to say how grateful I am.
I would have found my stay more useful/helpful/enjoyable if ... I think the only thing that would be helpful to a slightly "long-term" resident, would have been broadband internet access in the lodges. [Webeditor - investigating - watch this space]. There were things necessary to living which nowadays are so much done 'online' that that would have been good. And I can't believe that someone wouldn't pay you good money to site a mobile phone mast somewhere on your land? But the lodge itself was a wonderful, cosy, comfortable haven. |
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[written 1 year after 5 week visit] Thank you so much for all you gave me while I was with you – most of all for space, and a beautiful place to stabilise. Thank you too for managing me with a light touch as it were – I always looked forward to seeing you each week. When I came I was conscious that I looked out of the window at that amazing view and it all looked grey. Two days before I left I noticed that the colour was coming back. I think the time away helped me come to some very difficult conclusions, and the year after that was horribly difficult and stormy. But I think (hope) that I have weathered the worst – though I would not have chosen to do it if I could have seen another way through.
I am feeling very much better mentally now, and am on no medication, and enjoy each day as it comes. There is a lot that is uncertain, and I am having to rebuild from the ground up, but I feel positive and hopeful about the future.
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... After the tour of the complex, I was able to explore the site on my own. The walks are very good around the site and the village. The location in the valley is wonderful and so peaceful. I enjoyed the few days that I was able to spend at Sheldon.
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... I arrived following a journey through sleepy tiredness, worry, storms of pelting rain and sleet - but a journey to a place where my journey is a normal one, where I enter into the prayerful informed validity of seeking refreshment - indeed "laying aside burdens borne for self (harder to acknowledge) and others" -
Coming here is an expression of vulnerability. I cannot stand the thought of the vultures before I left croaking with delight at the sight of my weakness and expressed need (though perhaps there is something quite trendy about checking in at the clinic) - their prayer for me, or their good wishes seeming to be an expression of their power over me. But, I guess, this is becoming vulnerable and learning to own it and take it will bring life. I have found everything about the place so helpful and restoring - for me it was probably a preventative visit - I could see I was getting into a bad place, running on empty. The Linhay accommodation is just amazing; it is the sense of being understood and being normal that is so welcome. My first massage ever was great and the jacuzzi; bypassing my brain filters and just giving me a primary experience of pleasure and re-creation. As I re-read bits of "Affirmation and Accountability" I just find myself thinking 'yes, it's all such good sense' and so important. But, we, clergy and churches, go on colluding with destructive patterns. |
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... I can't speak highly enough of the care I received from you all. It was so unobtrusive, yet I knew it was there. My one to one time will be most valuable (thank you Sarah) and congratulations to the cook!! I think I've put on pounds! The bread pudding was especially "yum-yum".
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| ... I was closer to collapse than I liked to think and this has been an invaluable breather. Coming from a slightly similar community, I'm full of admiration for the haven you offer here and the quality of care which it embodies. Every blessing. |
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| ...Once again, a wonderful and refreshing stay. Everything you do, you do with excellence - but also with kindness and gentleness. It is very much appreciated. Thank you. |
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... I was able to care for myself - cooking etc from my larder ... I used the summerhouse again which is always a good place to be - sheltered from the wind - but looking at such a wonderful view. The peace and quiet of the site and help on hand if required. Thanks for all your love and care.
I would have found my stay more enjoyable if ... I had been able to have my bath tub ... especially good for a soak after a walk ... which I enjoy. I did miss not being able to see the view from my patio windows and also the bird feeder. But the recliner chairs were great! So all in all I really enjoyed my time once again and hope to see you all next year. I've recommended several folk - so hope they enjoy their stay as much as I always do! God bless. |
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| ... it's a perfect spot with brilliant people - once again your attention to detail has been superb - the correct balance of warm hospitality and accessibility with personal space. The jacuzzi and massage with Jan were completely relaxing and wonderful. Delicious food, so easy to prepare, the very comfy lodges and the magnificent views have made for a reflective and restoring break. Thank you! P.S. watching 3 deer in the Sheldon Copse was brilliant! P.P.S. it has been good to catch up on many of the films I've missed, great range of DVDs. |
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| ... You seem to have got it 'just right'. Lovely welcome on arrival and we knew you were around if we needed you. Larder stocked thoughtfully - great not to have to think about going shopping/menu planning. 'Sanctuary' a good place to leave things behind - at the cross. Peaceful, healing space. Ideal when you just want "to be". Thank you. |
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... The accommodation was very comfortable. It was very peaceful and good to know that I would not be disturbed during my stay. The little touches such as flowers in a vase and milk in the fridge were much appreciated.
I would have found my stay more useful/helpful/enjoyable if .. Nothing really. Only a blocked shower drain that meant the water did not drain away when showering. I reported this on departure, because I did not want to be disturbed during my stay. Otherwise, everything else was lovely! |
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| ... We were made to feel very welcome, and special. We thoroughly enjoyed the peace and quiet, and the way privacy was respected. The food provided was just right! We used the centre as a base to explore the locality and spend quality time together. Not always easy in the parish situation. Thanks. |
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| ... It gave me a break away from home and church, first time in 15 months. The food was excellent. The peace and quiet just what I wanted. Having the bar open just half an hour made one drink too quickly. Half an hour after meal would have helped. The staff and community have helped provide excellent service. Thanks for everything.
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| ... Thank you all so much for a wonderful stay. Although I didn't meet everyone who works at Sheldon, thank you to all of you who make it what it is - a haven of peace. I left without having a chance to say 'goodbye' to some of you, so I just wanted to be sure that you all knew how much I appreciate all you do to provide a place where one can truly relax and recreate. Many blessings... |
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| ... We were privileged to spend a weekend with you in one of the Linhay Lodges. It was a very special time for us, giving space for reflection, rest, prayer, lovely walks and time for each other. We enjoyed and appreciated our time with you and hope that sometime in the future, it may be possible to 'withdraw' to the peace of Sheldon again. Our thanks for your care for us and so many kindnesses. Good bless and best wishes. |
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.We just wanted to thank you for all the care you have shown us over the last few days (and also when we came in February). Every detail of our stay here has been supported and thought of, and we feel much better for our time here. Thank you for everything you have done, in all your various ministries. It has been a true sanctuary. We go home rested and with food for thought and peace of mind. |
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. Thank you so much for a wonderful week of rest and peace. We were especially blessed to find all our favourite foods so lovingly remembered and provided - you are truly amazing! |
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. For the beauty of this place, the sense of being surrounded by prayer, the generous gracious hospitality, the space to find God and one another I thank and praise the Lord. It has been so good to be here and I say a sincere 'thank you' to you all. |
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. Its been a most relaxing, restorative time out of a very busy life. I haven't been very well and it was just what was needed. Your hospitality is very gracious and non-intrusive but very thoughtful and we know where you are if we need you. It really has been a deeply restorative and peaceful time. I also love the silence in your prayer times. |
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. I wanted to say thank you very much for providing again the exact conditions I need to gather myself and return to the world a calmer and more reasonable person - easier to live with! Sheldon worked its magic once again and I shall certainly hope to come for a refill in May. |
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. it gave me the time and the quietness I needed to reflect on my own ministry in the parish and Deanery. Over several days issues became clear, questions sharper and tentative solutions began to form. I enjoyed the food and the freedom to eat when it suited me; so much time is spent fitted around the schedule of others that it is incredibly refreshing to be able to please myself. Above all though is the quiet, vibrant peace of this little community who gently and unobtrusively surrounded me with their healing and their care. I would have found my stay more useful/helpful/enjoyable if. I came more often and stayed longer. Alas! |
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~ of the warm welcome and care I received during the week
~ the lovely accommodation and the facilities
~ of the opportunities to talk with Carl
~ of the amazing view from my accommodation
~ (almost) no responsibilities
~ some lovely walks in the locality
~ time for quiet and prayer, and the services in the chapel, and reading
~ the Sanctuary
This is a great, a perfect, place for tired clergy - thanks for my week - very best wishes to Carl, Hillary, Penny and the others at Sheldon.
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... of the beautiful surroundings and countryside around. The freedom to just walk out into the country - the well planned grounds and well marked paths and maps helped. The buildings were well fitted out. The whole atmosphere was one of peace and quiet. The staff were warm and friendly and very helpful.
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| ... Thank you for sharp knives, scissors and feather pillow! Wonderful to have time aside for me to enjoy the Devon hills, valleys and woods. Well positioned, comfortable benches especially in Linhay's privacy. Thank you. |
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| ... I just wanted to say a huge thank you for enabling us to come here and have a foretaste of heaven - not least because of the superb food and hospitality. We are grateful for the gracious and generous welcome you have given to us. We have found rest, peace, refreshment and so much more. THANK YOU. |
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... the personal spaces, the beauty of the copse, the Linhay garden, fresh air and birdsong. It has been a very special experience. Many thanks for everything.
I would have found my stay more useful/helpful/enjoyable if ... a step stool was provided in the Lodge - and the library for those who are short of stature and can't reach top shelves! |
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| ... of the absolute freedom to rest, think, pray and even not to think and just to relax. Beautiful garden space and the sanctuary was lovely too. I really appreciated this time - thank you very much - and I would come back at a time of crisis. |
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... We write to thank you for looking after us so well last week. We both found the time very refreshing, and it was a real blessing just to be able to come and to "be" after an extremely busy period.
It was wonderful to find David's Lodge such a home from home, so easy to settle in quickly and make four days feel like many more. Being able to listen to the Fab Beatles as we watched the sun set from our beautiful window was a splendid bonus.
During the time with you, I found that I was able to reflect upon my new phase of ministry, to listen to God and to begin to gain an idea of priorities and structure for the future. |
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| ... My stay at Sheldon was wonderful because I was completely alone with access to lovely walks. I really appreciated the lovely food, such a joy not to have to even think about cooking. My favourite part of the Linhay garden is the swing, it's so relaxing to gently swing whilst listening to the birds and marveling at the beautiful countryside. Thank you. |
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| ... of your work, respectfully person-honouring. "Distance" - giving a safe space to recover and catch my spiritual breath! - and in such a glorious setting too ... Thanks so much - as ever, much appreciated. |
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| ... Please convey my thanks to everyone in the community for being so welcoming, and for providing a wonderful place in which I could make retreat last week. Thomas's Lodge felt like coming home; I found the sanctuary chapel to be, well, a real sanctuary; and the walks in and around the grounds were delightful and a rich source of inspiration and restoration ... Thank you! |
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| ... it gave me time, firstly, to sleep; secondly, to spend quality time with God, on his agenda, not mine; thirdly, to walk, at my own pace - wonderful exercise! Many thanks. I look forward to my next visit. |
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| ... it is comfortable and peaceful with ample good food provided. The friendly relaxed atmosphere is highly conducive to spiritual recharge as is the setting in the beautiful Devon countryside. |
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| ... of being in an environment in which I had no deadlines, in which I could rest and re-coup and in which I could reflect. The gentle, strong presence of God, which seemed to permeate Sheldon, restored my soul and brought forth in me renewed prayer and thanksgiving. The deep sense of love, reflected in the quality of fixtures and fittings, the beauty of the surroundings and the thoughtfulness evident in the details, made Sheldon an exceptional place to be renewed and re-invigorated. Very many thanks. |
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... All 'requirements' had been thought of and provided. It was so peaceful and no-one intruded into that peace. We know we were held in prayer. Such a beautiful place.
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| ... You seem to have thought of everything we needed to make our visit perfect: wonderful, relaxing accommodation; space in the garden and grounds; peace and freedom to do what we wanted. We loved the library - great selection of books. Thank you for the use of DVDs, games and videos! |
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| ... I was given space to be alone but, as always, with a sense of being 'held' by the community. I was able to join the community in prayer. Thank you so much for your generosity and your welcome. I feel incredibly safe here and yet enabled for the journey on. What a precious gift you give. Thank you. |
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| ... we had time and space surrounded by beautiful countryside with all our needs met. We enjoyed the opportunity to read, walk, pray, talk and draw. Linhay is a fabulous facility. Wish we'd stayed longer! |
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... I was beginning to come to terms with myself and God, because of the dramatic changes I have had to go through!
I would have found my stay more useful/helpful/enjoyable if ... I could have communicated with the Archangel Gabriel! |
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~ of the comfortable accommodation and thoughtful catering
~ the opportunity to talk "off patch" and ideas for next steps
~ super location |
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... 2 fabulous worship spaces that were really conducive to prayer. Blissful anonymity - no need to relate to anyone (in contrast to motherhood and ministry!). Total flexibility re meals (fab soups, especially).
I would have found my stay more useful/helpful/enjoyable if ... It all just worked for me - thank you. (Oh - tiny thought ... might be useful to have a current lectionary in the library, if not in the chapels ... Having left mine at home I decided God and I would try something different - so didn't ask for one, but had a quick look ... ) |
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| ... The warmth of the welcome and the way that everything had been thought of, made me feel really welcome. I loved the freedom from phone calls, the demands of other people, and time constraints. The grounds were a source of delight - (and the weather was perfect!).
I felt very blessed - thanks to Sarah for the one to one and to Jan for the massage.... |
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| ... Having arrived exhausted after several months of frantic activity in our home parishes, we were overwhelmed by all the gentle signs of hospitality. Having had lie-ins, long walks, good food and quality time with God, we feel ready to face the hard work of ministry once again. Thank you to all of you here at Sheldon for all you have done for us and for your loving care of all who come here. |
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~ I was welcomed so genuinely and gently - not only by Jan who showed me to my lodge, but by all the thoughtful touches in it, including a small vase of my favourite freesias.
~ I had the peace (no interruptions of any kind) and space to catch up with me .... in the Sanctuary, in the idyllic grounds, as well as in the lodge.
~ of your unobtrusive, prayerful presence and support.
Thank you all very much. |
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... It was a blessed time in the midst of great stress - an oasis in the desert for me. Thank you so much for fitting me in. The food was wonderful. I loved watching videos uninterrupted and almost not feeling guilty doing it. "Nicholas Nickleby" was terrific. The massage was special. All the staff have been so kind and loving. I loved watching the lambs running around the field. The Fringe meeting was very stimulating.
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~ I could have stayed longer...
~ I could have managed to eat all the lovely food that stocked my fridge! |
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... Space to relax and switch off (from parish life) and listen to God. Well-stocked 'larder' - wonderful home cooking that I didn't have to think about. Beautiful surroundings - walk planners very useful (even the weather couldn't have been better!)
I would have found my stay more useful/helpful/enjoyable if....
It would be difficult to improve on what you provide already! |
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| ... Thank you once for a wonderful start to my sabbatical - your love and care and the way you provide for all my needs are so very much appreciated. May God bless you as you continue to support such as me! |
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... Peace, quiet, beautiful countryside - good selection of walks - gorgeous sheep! Everything had been provided to make Linhay like home. Friendly staff - yet I had lots of space just to be!
I would have found my stay more useful/helpful/enjoyable if....
Small things - that won't stop me coming back! Linhay sofas could do with bigger loose cushions - the seats are quite wide and something at the back would have been useful. The bed was a little hard. |
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| ... it is an excellent venue for a retreat. The care, courtesy, and kindness shown to the guests is outstanding. There is attention to detail in a warm, welcoming environment. I shall certainly return. I trust this community and its ministry will receive the prayerful and financial support it so richly deserves for its present and future development. |
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... Excellent food and immaculate accommodation (as always), and nice having the extra acres to roam. Jacuzzi and massage to unwind.
... Shame the pig sties have truncated the Linhay view. |
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| ... because of the hospitality, kindness and support given in one to one times. I was given space to encounter the Lord in refreshing and healing ways. The rhythm of MP & EP was helpful in giving structure to the days. The food was superb and the surroundings breathtaking. I'd like to thank Carl for his kindness and help to me personally. |
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... it gave us space after a traumatic twelve months in which we had moved house twice after leaving somewhere where we had lived in for ten years. The stocked larder with wonderful veggie foods, the clocks and watches laid to one side - time to watch the world slip by and not have to be anywhere for anything.
We would have found our stay at Sheldon more enjoyable if ... the weather - but even Sheldon can't arrange everything and it was February after all! |
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| ... of the care given to ensure a comfortable, relaxed and peaceful stay. Everything is made easy. |
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~ Superb facility of Linhay setting
~ Clarity about every aspect of stay
~ Robust and warm support and spirituality
Many thanks to you all. Much appreciated my stay and what you all make possible. |
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... the welcome was warm. My lodge was comfortable and warm, the larder filled with tasty delicious food (soup especially good!) No one demanded/expected anything from me. I was left in peace - but knowing support/help was around if I needed it. The library well stocked. Lovely 'bear' in the Sanctuary.
I would have found my stay more useful/helpful/enjoyable if .... there had been a hair-dryer or a reminder to bring my own! [Webeditor: it's in the Utility Room] |
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... Opportunity to relax with good surroundings; good accommodation and good food. Thank you.
I would have found my stay more enjoyable if .... lack of privacy with workmen working opposite [on the Pig Pens] each day - at ground and roof level! Unavoidable we appreciate - that's the only downside. |
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| ...of the peace and security and the very comfortable accommodation. I also enjoyed the facilities - the library and the warm chapel. |
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... We needed unstructured, relaxed space to have some more time together and to enjoy each other's company once again! Linhay lodges are ideal - well equipped, delightfully furnished - all our needs readily supplied - and with graciousness - caring hospitality - thank you.
We would have found our stay more enjoyable if ... the weather had been warmer - but that's not your responsibility! |
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... of the opportunity of being alone, no telephone, doorbell, just surrounded by peace and space to begin the process of reflection. Time to pray without interruptions, without pressures and daily demands waiting in the background. Not having to attend organised sessions. Many thanks for everything.
I would have found my stay more enjoyable if ... It will be even better when the workmen [on the Pig Pens] have finished!! Don't worry, they didn't distract me that much, in fact they were a good reminder of the need for life and the ordinary events that have to keep going while I had the chance and luxury to step aside for a few days. |
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| ... I was left in peace. I didn't feel obliged to be sociable if I didn't want to. The one-to-one sessions were helpful because I set the agenda and was accompanied on a journey to rediscover the resources and tools I already possessed. I loved the wide spaces to walk in and the animals. The accommodation was comfortable and very well appointed. |
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| ... It gave me space to relax, think and pray about some key issues and opportunities in my ministry. Everyone was wonderfully welcoming; the area is beautiful and the facilities incredibly comfortable. Thank you for a wonderful break - I hope to come again. |
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| ... We both thank you all very much for the peaceful few days we spent with you last week. Your care, and the unobtrusive exercise of it, was much appreciated and we have returned home feeling much restored. We hope the work on the Pig Pens will go smoothly and look forward to seeing them completed when we come again, which we hope to do one day. |
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| ... The welcome; space and peace offered; the hospitality and thoughtfulness in each detail; acceptance as people and not as 'clergy'; the wonderful place to stay |
We would have found our stay more useful/helpful/enjoyable if
... we had more possibilities of access to the library - but we are not complaining!
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... It was quiet and peaceful. No demands were made upon me and I slept well. There was opportunity to think and pray without distraction. Carl was helpful and the chapel and prayer room were ideal.
I would have found my stay more useful/helpful/enjoyable if
... it had not rained so much! (I shall return in the summer.) Only a small point, the instructions re waste disposal could be clearer, but maybe I am "thick". Where are the re-usable meal cartons meant to go? Sorry if this seems like"nit picking". Sheldon is excellent. |
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... Everything to aid my comfort and stay had been anticipated even before I had thought about it myself. I spent all of my time on my own (my own choice) but knew there were people around me who cared and were concerned for my welfare. I cannot think of a more perfect retreat than these past few days. I was concerned about intrusion with regards space and noise, especially since I was aware other guests/programmes were going on in the main buildings - I needn't have been, space and quiet seems to be individually tailored as well! Thank you to you all.
I would have found my stay more useful/helpful/enjoyable if
... As I mentioned when I first arrived, I often find beds are not very comfortable - alas although adequate, this could have been better! There must be a means of a firm bed but where the interface between body and bed could be softer - maybe a mattress topper or something? |
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a) no demands made on us - living gently each day
b) unobtrusive yet caring presence of the community
c) beautiful surroundings and so quiet
d) delicious home-cooked food
e) comfortable (and warm) accommodation
f) the massage (J)
g) the opportunity to pray by myself or to join the community prayers
I would have my stay more useful/helpful/enjoyable if
... there had been better lighting to read by in the living room. |
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~ The peace, man: the peace!
~ Very comfortable accommodation
~ Very helpful staff who really want you to have a positive, relaxing, creative time.
I've been before, but it just goes on getting better. No 'phones, no callers, no demands, no schedule, no dogs! - peace |
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... the lodge (Thomas') was wonderful - very homely - the chair and sofa were something else - I felt immediately enveloped in ... God's love? Your love? .... Whatever, it felt very special. Your low-key approach has also been very helpful. (No prayer ministry - YES! - sorry, I've come from a place surrounded by prayer ministry and I've found it very uncomfortable).
~ and, of course, the beautiful surroundings
~ and, one other thing, the Sanctuary, so special, just right - wonderful in darkness.
My stay might have been more helpful/enjoyable/productive if
... it had been longer! (3 nights not really enough for me to properly relax)
... I could have shared some of the times with my husband (although some things are best alone). We'll come together next time.
Thank you all very much - a special place you have made here. |
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... of the way in which so much trouble and care had been taken to make the surroundings comfortable - both spiritually and physically. The numerous places to sit and 'be' hidden away. The lovely Linhay gardens - such a visible sign of being cared for. The seat in The Sanctuary almost inviting you to go to sleep. The way in which all physical needs have been anticipated and met. The sessions were immensely helpful too - what started in them has gone on growing in me since; I gained more than I had realised at the time?
I would have found my stay more enjoyable if...
I had not felt so exposed in the lodge - because the land rises behind them, and the window at the front is so big. There are few spots in them where you know someone passing and looking in could not see you? I know most people don't look up but they could do. And with rooms in the barn opposite facing into the lodges - I found that hard. I changed the furniture round and partly drew the curtains to produce a smaller "window".
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... of the atmosphere of calm and order here. I appreciated the generous provision of space warmth and food which helped me to rest. I loved the spa, massage and the poetry at evening prayer. I enjoyed the detailed walk instructions and the little meditation walk book. Although a private retreat, I did know I could ask for help if I needed it.
I would have found my stay more useful/helpful/enjoyable if
... I had read the notes and looked in the ice box for Tuesday's supper! The casseroles, soups and preserves from Martha's kitchen were delicious. Thank you for all the wheat free goodies! |
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... Good time for rests, reflection and renewal
Appreciated -
~ Lodge clean on Monday
~ Time with Carl
~ Initial larder stocks
~ Garden
Thank you.
We would have found our stay more useful/helpful/enjoyable if
~ Cold water in bathroom always runs warm or hot [Webeditor: design fault, nothing we can do about it, sorry]
~ Apron would be helpful
~ Bananas - this is an old family thing mum and gran always insisted they cause fruit to go off if kept in same bowl |
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... I needed space - and I had it - silence, and I was left in peace, an opportunity to lay down burdens which I did. I was able to read, think, rest, relax and pray. I could do this because I was so well looked after. Everything for my well being and comfort was in the Linhay Lodge. Altho' I could have bought/brought my own food it was nice to have someone else's cooking (very good it was too) and to have more than I could possibly need provided for me. It made me feel treasured. So thank you for six wonderful days.
... The only very slight quibble I had was the duvet kept slipping off - it was too warm to anchor it with a blanket. Perhaps a light bedspread which hung over the duvet might help. Maybe others are not as restless as I am! |
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| ... Thank you for providing such a lovely space for me last month. The sanctuary was the most perfect place for quiet and reflection and the views from my room utterly soothing. |
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~ Helpful and friendly staff
~ Given space
~ Impressive accommodation
~ Impressive grounds
... Can't think of anything to be honest that could have improved my stay - any problems I had were resolved quite quickly. |
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| ... It gave me valuable space to think and pray and to work through personal and work issues without the telephone ringing! |
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| ... I had a great time in 'David's Lodge'.... I walked quite a few miles around the local hills and generally 'chilled out'. Jan introduced me to the delights of massage and I came away feeling a new man. I didn't even mind the 5 hour drive home, which actually took 3.5 hours). Thank you for looking after me. I will definitely come again, maybe next year. |
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~ of the quiet
~ of the freedom to be!
~ of the isolation
~ of the scenery/environment
~ of the friendliness of the staff
~ of my introduction to the benefits of massage (thanks Jan)
...I really cannot think of anything (sorry) that could have improved my stay. My stay here has exceeded my expectations. |
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| ... I wanted to say a big thank you for making my stay here possible. It has been a hugely helpful time, both in terms of giving me some space, but also in the advice you have given me, which I really feel will be of practical help in the coming years, and I will take a lot away with me. Thank you to you, and to all who have looked after me so well during my stay. |
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... It was generally quiet and peaceful - with plenty of time for reflection, real prayer and thanksgiving for both the good things of life and for the not so good things. The 'one-to-one' session taught me a number of things : not to try to do things in my ministry that are beyond my reach. My reading including gaining some insight into when things appear to go wrong with friends.
I can't fault the kindliness and thoughtfulness of everyone. The 'lodge' was truly a 'bolt-hole' where I could organize myself as I wished. A very big thank you! |
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~ it gave me 'space' to think and pray some important
~ it provided an opportunity to talk about things to a 'listening ear'
~ it reminded me again of God's love for me in spite of who I am and what I do
~ it helped me realise that I am not the only minister undergoing stressful times
~ the beauty and the peace drew me closer to God.
I return tomorrow to the challenges I left behind on Sunday, but better equipped to face them and more aware of God's presence with me as I do so.
My stay might have been more helpful/enjoyable/productive if
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~ of the extremely comfortable, thoughtfully put together, surroundings in the Lodge, and more generally of the treat of delicious meals prepared for me.
~ of the 'quiet' part of the grounds, and the sanctuary which felt especially soaked in prayer and tears
~ of the trouble taken to put together walks off site - which I thoroughly enjoyed following. It was lovely not even to have to think about that.
~ of the excellent library. One book leapt off the shelf and really spoke to me
~ I found God here.
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| ... My wife and I would like to thank you and all your community of Mary and Martha for our wonderful stay with you last week. We realise the quietness and the gentle peacefulness, in which we rested, and through which we were calmed and refreshed, came to us as a result of the sacrifices which the members of the Society make through their response, and obedience, to the Call of God. A wonderful atmosphere; holy, yes; but with loads of common sense!! Thank you very much from both of us |
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... I came as part of my sabbatical to retreat from travel/people/the "need to engage" with others, and to have the time to read some theology which I never seem to have time for. The quietness and sanctuary sustained a prayer life of deeper meaning. The Linhay garden a constant source of joy. Was ready to return to my "real" world after the two weeks, feeling calmer, refreshed and more focused.
My stay might have been more helpful/enjoyable/productive if
... I looked for a dictionary in the library. Did I miss it? If not, a Concise Oxford, or similar would be an asset. Did you know that "margarine" is spelt incorrectly on your "Larder rules" in the Linhay!!! |
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| ... it suits me down to the ground to be given all I need to run my own retreat, just to be left to my own devices. The accommodation is excellent, the surroundings are wonderfully peaceful and stimulating at the same time, the food is excellent. |
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~ excellent facilities
~ opportunity away from demands
~ anonymity with other guests appreciated!
~ larder facility enabling my own catering was good
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