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| Accommodation outstanding; I was expecting rather spartan conditions. It would be helpful to have some suitable music at meals at a silent retreat. |
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| The room was lovely and comfortable. The food delicious and the peaceful surroundings and care from the staff was wonderful. Thank you. A lovely stay and fab retreat. A little clock in the room would possibly be helpful. |
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| Sheldon as ever held us in its loving care – attention to detail, comfort (the Long Barn is brilliant!) and good food. Retreat sensitively and inspirationally led by Robert and Barbara. Enjoyed the balance between silence and community, poetry and photography. Rhythm of life at Sheldon really does nurture the soul and body. |
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| The food was good as ever and it’s always nice to be back. Mark was really special and his openness made members of the group open up as well. Nice and spacious – he was able to secure the input of the group members as well as presenting his subject. The magic was fun! It would have been more enjoyable if the Long Barn had magically been transformed already. With ‘increasing age’ visiting the loo in the night is always a bit of an expedition. [Webeditor: we're now rebuilding the Long Barn.] |
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| Space – the place setting is heaven on earth, also our own room, silence and the timetable was not packed. Food – three meals a day – wow! All good quality, delicious. Do you do home visits? Worship – both chapels have a Godly presence – could have stayed in them all day. Event – the leader and contributions were stimulating, thought provoking and reassuring. I really have nothing to add seeing the plans for the new development prevents me from saying what I might because the new will change it all. You all must be very excited about the future!! God bless you. Thank you very much. |
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The efficiency and kindness of all the staff, and particularly the provision of one dedicated volunteer to assist my handicapped husband, which freed me a lot. Likewise the input and care of our retreat conductor. And the splendid home-made bread and soups! |
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The wonderful hospitality here which enabled us to gain maximum benefit from an organised retreat. Accommodation in the ‘Pig Pen’ was warm and very comfortable, and we lacked nothing whatsoever! The unobtrusive care of staff and their kindness at all time have again provided us with everything we could have wished for during a stay in this very beautiful and special place. Thank you so much! |
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| It was so quiet and peaceful; the retreat was wonderfully led with sensitivity to different people’s needs; the massage/jacuzzi was excellent and a real treat; warm hospitality in beautiful spring weather – what more could one ask. Thank you. P.S. Wonderful soups! |
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| Good company, plenty of food for thought and spiritual nourishment. The community and helpers are full of kindness and cared for us most assiduously. Many thanks to Jan and helpers for excellent food. The weather was quite wonderful and showed Sheldon off to best advantage – but it would have been a great week anyway. Bless you all for your loving dedication. |
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A lovely thoughtful retreat conductor – well researched talks and readings, but all delivered with a light touch. Learnt a lot but still felt like a holiday. The ambiance, atmosphere, care and food as usual quite excellent. And the weather was brilliant and the wild flowers, birds, sheep and rabbits……. The loos in the Long Barn seem to have got weaker – takes too many pull, flushes, to clear the bowl. A small bucket would come in handy to clear the bowl – especially upstairs. I dislike unwrapping those small pats of butter/Flora. I for one would consume less if I could help myself from the butter dish in the normal way. With these little packets I feel compelled to use one up even if I don’t need it otherwise it feels wasteful. I know that tradition dictates silent meals. Don’t like it but put up with it of course. However I wonder if we couldn’t have some music – if not at every meal perhaps sometimes? Accommodation in Long Barn pretty awful but we know that and one day this may all change. The stairs are very steep – high – what I wonder are they like in the plan of new building. Very difficult for the arthritis. |
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The retreat was very well conducted – talks informative and thought provoking – and it was lovely to have daily Eucharist as well as Morning Prayer and Compline. Because I have difficulties with sight and mobility I was very moved by the unobtrusive but thoughtful helpfulness of others in the group. My ‘Library Day’ was a bonus which turned out to be blessing. As usual we were looked after splendidly. Thank you. |
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(1)The retreat conductor was excellent, the timetable and programme was carefully balanced and the addresses had clarity in theological interpretation and (2) the warmth of welcome and generous hospitality offered by Sarah, Hillary and Jan and their volunteers. |
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Quiet, considerate care of the staff; sense that our needs had been anticipated and provided for; beautiful surroundings; glorious grounds, with seats placed in unexpected and very welcome locations; company of others who allowed each to take whatever part (s)he wished; excellent teaching/guided reflection. It would have been more helpful if the Long Barn rooms had more daylight – hopefully to be rectified in the planned rebuilding. |
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In both the particular and general, a perfect setting for exploring the spiritual journey. The ‘places’ for listening and gathering, the chapels, for nourishment and relaxation, for private prayer and reading, for ‘stepping out into the wild places’ – it was all there. Wonderful library; hospitality – warm, thoughtful, never intrusive, wonderful food! I can’t hold anyone responsible except myself – I just forgot about the jacuzzi! |
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| The accommodation was comfortable, warm and welcoming. The food was delicious and plentiful. The surroundings are peaceful and the scenery beautiful. The content of the talks challenged, confirmed and enlightened me. It will take several weeks to process all I have experienced. Then I’ll have to start planning my next visit!! The walks around the estate have been enjoyable but I would like to visit at a different time of the year next to enjoy foliage and different flowers. I really cannot think of anything that would have made my stay more enjoyable. |
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| The site is in such a beautiful area of countryside. It is very well organised and is very peaceful and welcoming. It felt a very safe and secure place to be with all my needs catered for. (Really nice home cooked meals and afternoon cake). It stayed in one of the Pig Pens which had been very thoughtfully furnished with some really fun pig mugs and stuffed toy. The retreat was well organised and led by Margaret Silf. I have a lot to take home and process over the coming weeks. Sorry I can’t really think of anything you have not already thought of. |
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Brilliant talks, lovely walking, super food and a beautiful collection of buildings lovingly restored. This was my first visit, but I hope to return. |
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| The silence helped a lot and was comfortable, makes communication with God easier. Story telling created wonderful pictures to help explain the point and the handouts are there to be referred to when life gets challenging again. Despite the fact that the Long Barn is the next project for refurbishment, the accommodation was adequate, clean and comfortable. Thank you Jan and your team for delicious meals throughout. |
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| The retreat was well planned and spaced, it was good to have free time in the afternoons. Thank you for the music at silent meals. Wonderful food again – thank you Jan and helpers. It would have been more enjoyable if I’d known how to work the shower! (but then I know it’s being scrapped anyway). Many thanks for a wonderful stay. |
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| My stay was useful – lots of ideas to take back to our church; helpful – deeper understanding of myself and guidance with some personal problems; enjoyable – being looked after so well and so kindly and such good food and comfy surroundings (Pig Pen). Thank you all very much for all your care and thoughtfulness. |
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I enjoyed my stay because of the Sheldon welcome and ethos; veggie food excellent, thank you Jan; retreat content helpful; I appreciated hugely the ‘free time’ from 1pm-5pm – long enough to have some horizontal time and a walk and time to read/pray etc. It’s been good to be here again, thank you. I would have found it more helpful if the sessions had finished earlier to give me time to assimilate, to pray though the Feast I had been offered, space before the next session/lunch/bar time. |
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| This was a very special retreat which helped me to face and understand with hindsight some of my past transitions. Margaret led in such a sympathetic, understanding way, with laughter, stories and her own experiences which will stay with me as I face more transitions. It was very comfortable in the Pig Pen – thank you. The meals were delicious. The quiet thoughtful prayers morning and evening all helped the whole week to be a memorable and useful experience at Sheldon. Cannot think of anything that would have improved it! Thank you so much – it was very worthwhile. |
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My stay was useful/helpful/enjoyable because of (1) the ambience of the House and the surrounding area; (2) the presentational skills Margaret brought to bear on her subject, and her wide range of interests. Margaret herself; (3) the amendable group of people, brought into community, again, by Margaret’s skills; (4) the balance of the programme which allowed time together, and in silence, and in solitude; (5) the friendly, welcoming, relaxing nature of Sheldon. It would have been more enjoyable if I’d been able to sleep better – but that’s my problem, not yours. Thank you! |
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| It was warm, the nice towels and soap made me feel cosseted. I was able to sleep and sleep (in between talks and meals). When ‘recovered’ I was able to walk in the fresh air and have a lovely massage – accepting ministry for once, rather than ministering. I would have found it more helpful if there had been slightly fewer ‘stories’ as part of the talks, with perhaps the opportunity to go deeper. |
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I received a warm welcome, a comfortable room, wonderful food and hot drinks available at any time. The timetable was unhurried, lots of time for prayer and personal reflection. The teaching from Margaret Silf was gentle, warm, helpful and challenging – she is very gifted and very humble. All this in a stunning location! The small thatched chapel dedicated to Christ the Servant was a very special place during my stay. I would have found my stay more enjoyable if I could have come once the new ensuite Long Barn rooms were available! But I shall look forward to that…… |
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| Margaret was wonderful – excellent value for money. Your welcome and love was extravagant for which I thank you. The little details meant a lot – flowers in room, comfort box etc. Well done Sheldon! A brilliant week – as always. The Long Barn does need updating – let us hope that it happens! Despite this it was warm and loads of hot water – and very clean! It would have been nice to be able to have breakfast “in house” without having to wait for a specific time etc. |
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| It gave me space and time to reflect – apart from my busy schedule – and wonderful surroundings too. Food was excellent! My stay would have been more enjoyable if there had been en-suite facilities – but I know you are to remedy this with the new build. Also, thicker walls between bedrooms are a must! |
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The welcome is warm and genuine. Body and soul is nurtured and loved. Table flowers are always a nice touch. I wish I could stay longer! And the bed (in the Pound House) was a little softer – I awoke early each day with slight back discomfort. |
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In the Pound House I had excellent accommodation complete with en suite facilities; the catering and housekeeping was excellent and the setting is wonderful; it provided an ideal place for a silent retreat and Margaret Silf’s story telling approach suited me ‘down to the ground’; I also appreciated the 1.00-5.00 gap in the programme – I had 3 substantial walks which did me the power of good, aided by maps provided by you. I struggle to find anything to be critical about – I did purloin a drinking glass from the Dining Room to use in the bedroom; I didn’t like the plastic mattress protector but did know it was permitted to remove it (but I didn’t). Every blessing and thank you. |
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| I wanted to thank everyone for the kindness and care I received at Sheldon. I came away (regretfully) feeling happy, peaceful and refreshed. Your two chapels are very inspirational and Jim’s services were something I always looked forward to. Please do tell him. I wanted very much to meet Margaret and she was most certainly not a disappointment. Our accommodation was very spoiling and comfortable (Pig Pen) and please tell all in the kitchen how much I enjoyed my meals. |
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| My stay, without hyperbole, was exceptional, because of the combination of (1) silence, (2) Brian Thorne’s addresses with their range through psychological and spiritual domains, falling into a more silent mind (3) liturgy/sacrament/confession with Richard (4) the quality of the space at Sheldon. A combination I have not experienced before. I implore you to repeat this, perhaps over a slightly extended period. The conditions are ripe for a direct experience of belovedness. |
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| Delicious food, lovely to have tasty and imaginative veggie meals, home cooked fresh and varied. Beautiful setting even in November, wet and muddy – I enjoyed several rambles from the ‘local walks’ folder and found the maps and directions very clear and easy to follow. Thoughtful placing of ‘hot drinks stations’ around, for use any time – even in the library, a masterstroke! Peaceful and prayerful chapels, “thin” places. I would have liked to know in advance re no mobile phone signal, no internet (just to tell the family what to expect). Thank you all, I just wish I lived closer! |
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| Brian Thorne gave superb, moving, helpful, loving addresses. I would strongly suggest it should be offered again. Richard was wonderful too. Food was really yummy – especially Kedgeree and ham and beans (and soups, too). Lovely sense of space and right amount of structure. There is attention to beauty in the worship spaces. Kind and gentle staff. I’m not a fan of instant coffee – so was pleased to discover the cafetiere in the Library.. I seem to remember filter coffee at breakfast last time I was here? Best wishes for the Long Barn appeal. It is a wonderful and right vision for this place. Will do what I can in my little way to support it. |
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| As ever a place where it is possible simply to let go into the peace, upheld by beautiful surroundings, good food and deep prayer. Thank you. |
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| I was in real need of spiritual refreshment, a chance to be “me” and not the vicar and chaplain. The staff, volunteers and atmosphere at Sheldon have given me what I needed. I have been welcomed and cherished so that I go home refreshed in body, mind and spirit. The Retreat Leader has been an inspiration, reminding me of how precious I am in God’s sight. Thank you all, and may you long continue this very special ministry. It would have been more enjoyable if it hadn’t rained so much! (Mostly at night, but it made walks very muddy and slippery even with wellies). Porridge at breakfast would have been nice – but I can’t fault the food otherwise. Loads of it and scrumptious. |
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| …the space to wander and pray, and space and light in the pig pen to paint. The pig pen was lovely – very comfortable with everything we needed, and that wonderful view. Both chapels were quiet places to pray. And lovely to be fed spiritually and physically at regular intervals! The retreat leaders – Brian and Richard – were inspired. |
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| The event gave helpful structure which encouraged me to organise my free time effectively. The addresses gave thought for further study and I was grateful to find helpful related books in the library at Sheldon. This was my first visit to Sheldon and I very much appreciated the sense of welcome and warmth extended by the community. |
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| My stay was useful/helpful/enjoyable, all of these and more, because my name was on the door – I knew you loved and prayed for me before I even arrived. All was thoughtful orderliness and calm. Not a hint of Gordon Ramsey in the kitchen! It was for me a week of profound insights and it felt like a true home coming. You have created a very special place apart. Many, many thanks to you all. Food for the mind, food for the spirit and great food for the body. It would have been more enjoyable if I didn’t have to leave! Everything was quite wonderful! P.S. The hens seem to have a bit of a “Long Barn” problem. A bigger run and a dust bath would be good – guess you would have predator problems round here. The sheep are, well, heavenly – do they have daily baths? Still puzzled how you managed to arrange the magnificent rainbow? |
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| Your care and the demonstration of Christ’s love which I experienced through it enabled me to gain rest and refreshment. You provided a safe and beautiful space in which to explore my relationship with God. Bless you all. |
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| …the welcome, and extreme thoughtfulness shown – the gluten-free biscuits in my room, and the care at mealtimes. The beautiful view from my bedroom. The structure of the day and the quality of the talks. The restful atmosphere, the beautiful walks. The silence! Celebrating the Eucharist each day. The heart-warming, nourishing food, and Jan’s graces! |
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| Sensitive hospitality and an excellent speaker. This place is utterly brilliant – only God could make it like this with people like you as His servants. It would have been more enjoyable if there were salad alternative food, better library and conference facilities, but I realise that building new accommodation is a priority. [Webeditor: we're now rebuilding the Long Barn.] |
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| The hospitality is sensitive, warm and deeply caring; the course leader was experienced, highly competent, deeply spiritual and inspiring. |
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| The staff and environment were warm, welcoming and sincere. Our needs were fully met with love and sensitivity. |
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| It came at the right time for me. I was pondering some “imponderables” none of which were not touched on by the Retreat conductor’s talks and loving attitude towards me and us all. The talks were amazingly succinct, no rambling at all which left bags of space for prayer, rest and leisure. The timetable was gentle which was just as well as the context was vigorous and profound! Liturgies, meals, Sheldon staff team and the beauty of the winter view were a delight. Nothing needs to be changed except the Long Barn rooms and even then I found plenty of other spaces to use and enjoy. [Webeditor: we're now rebuilding the Long Barn.] It could not have been better. |
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| A line to say again how deeply grateful I am to you and to all the members of the Community for the exemplary way in which you looked after us during the Retreat. I was deeply impressed by all I experienced at Sheldon and you may be assured of my continuing good wishes and prayers for the great work you are doing. |
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| Sheldon has a lovely atmosphere; peaceful, prayerful, caring and the grounds and setting are beautiful. Rooms and food were great. The retreat was a gentle and enjoyable way of spending quality time with God and deepening that relationship. Thanks so much! |
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| I was attracted to this walking retreat by the title “Rambling with God” – most of the time God has to put up with us rambling to him in what I call prayer, but this struck me as an opportunity to spend time with God in a different way altogether. The retreat was “carefully” led with flexibility for wet weather, unfit bodies and the varied spiritual needs of the walkers. I have come away feeling renewed and refreshed in body, mind and spirit – thank you so much! |
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| Good food, clean rooms and bathrooms etc. Good group and good leaders. Could we not use inclusive language re bible readings? On the first day we did a prayer walk around the grounds which I enjoyed and I wondered if this could be part of all the walks. For example: on a 2-hour walk, on Dartmoor, or wherever, could we stop every 15 minutes or so to have a short prayer or silent reflection? It might help keep the group more together as they got a bit strung out. |
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| You are a very professional outfit – the food is excellent, the standard of maintenance high and the place spotlessly clean! After a slow start is was, spiritually, a useful time. One contribution to this was from a book from your excellent library. The retreat leaders were gentle, gracious people. I would have found it more helpful if the retreat had been more structured – more input from the leaders and more use and discussion of the results of the assignments given. |
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| I love Sheldon, the quiet, the views, and the ‘pig pen’! It was so good to be back. I really enjoyed the opportunity to walk through the Devonshire countryside, especially Dartmoor and to let God be God in me through the beauty of his creation. I really appreciated the two extra days in the pig-pen before the retreat began. I would have found it more helpful if the ‘start of the day’ session had been longer and if people had honoured the silence throughout the retreat. Thank you. |
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| Sheldon, as ever, opens its arms and its heart to those in need. Thank you. I would have found my stay more enjoyable if the bed had not creaked loudly each time I moved. The noise was sufficient to wake me. [Webeditor: we are investigating and will repair!] |
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| There was a good combination of silence, exercise and rest in a delightful setting. The food was excellent. The en suite room a much appreciated surprise! Fellow ‘pilgrims’ easy to get on with. Leaders of the week sensitive to group’s needs. I would have found my stay at Sheldon more enjoyable if we had been ‘allowed’ to share Holy Communion; the group was asked if they would like HC and several of us said yes later in the week; which was refused. I found this very odd, and it ‘coloured’ my opinion of ‘the community’. It would be better for an option to be built into the week before the guests arrive. [Webeditor: sorry - this was due to a communications failure among the team. Noted.] Have a glass in the rooms. Jan was very stern! |
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| The silence was so precious and gave a memorable and helpful backdrop to Esther de Waal’s input. |
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| Esther de Waal just overflows with knowledge, insight and ideas and it was both a privilege and life enhancing to sit at her feet! The pig pens are wonderful accommodation – comfortable, spacious, with such a calm and peaceful outlook. It is luxury to be en suite and with kettle, fridge etc. and we really enjoy them. But above all is the wonderful hospitality – the sense from the moment you arrive that here are people just wanting to look after you and make your stay comfortable. The food is excellent: I did try to practice restraint when I had had ‘enough’ – but it was all tasty and there was a good variety. Thank you for making it such a special place, where we find peace every time. This is not for now, but maybe for the future, or if I wanted to come by myself: would it be difficult to round up people wishing to use public transport as far as Exeter? Or to put people in touch with other drivers to drop them in Exeter on the return leg. What about volunteers? Or if there are any other train-travellers, could they be put in touch to explore sharing a taxi? We are working very hard at being green, but get defeated by the practicalities! |
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| As always it is the place and the loving care of us which is healing. Esther had so much to offer us, but it look time to access the riches she gave us. The pace was good and the silence extraordinarily beautiful. It would have been more enjoyable if the technology had not let us down, such a pity. It will be wonderful when the Long Barn is resurrected, but there was a nostalgic warmth about my little cell! |
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| Sheldon is a wonderfully peaceful place. So many small touches made it a very special week – e.g. the fresh flowers in the bedrooms and on the tables in the dining room, the excellent food menu, being able to have a massage, the photocopied maps of local walks, the ability to make hot drinks at any time – day or night, and the ‘comfort’ box containing special treats (hairdryer and hot water bottle!). A big THANK YOU to everyone concerned. The stay would have been more helpful if security of the building could have been explained at the start of the week e.g. were the main doors locked at night? Comfy reading chair in the Pound House (in the bedrooms?) |
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| The location is itself beautiful and the nearby area full of delights from waterfall to beaches! There is a very real sense of being welcome from “help yourself” drinks to generous portioned and delicious meals. Accommodation was clean and comfortable but I would have preferred a 3’ bed. [Webeditor: we're now rebuilding the Long Barn.] Everything I needed was here – but I received more than I expected – many thanks to all who made that my experience. |
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The input from Esther was much appreciated and ticked all the boxes in terms of spiritual renewal. The environment created by Sheldon was also very special in making this an important spiritual break. This is particularly important for me as this is how to choose to begin my sabbatical. |
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The domestic arrangements were wonderful – comfortable, beautiful, serene, and delicious and plentiful food. Flowers in my bedroom, thank you. Jan’s massage was a gift – what a versatile lady. Brilliant jacuzzi! Thoughtful attention to detail – e.g. walking maps in the library – breathtakingly lovely surroundings – the bluebells, garlic and orchids, heaven! Esther’s guidance – nourishing, wise, freeing, unintrusive. Helpful friendly office. Nothing too much trouble. Loads of hot water. Everything so clean and fresh. I would have found it more enjoyable if there was a rug on the floor of the little chapel. I love to sit low, or use a prayer stool/cross legged, but the floor is cold and hard! – & the chapel is so beautiful and holy. On similar line – the arrangement of chairs in the big chapel – straight rows, doesn’t invite one to sit on the floor – at meals (lunch in particular, when sunny) would have been glad of permission to take lunch outside. It has been a heavenly stay. Thank you. [Webeditor: all except changing chapel layout could easily have been sorted on request if we'd known at the time - do ask!] |
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Mary and Martha Society is a truly welcoming, relaxed and comfortable centre set in such beautiful countryside that it can’t fail to bring peace and comfort to those in need of any kind. The Retreat was led wonderfully well by Esther who used a wide range of poems and spiritual writing to illustrate her points. Her calm and deeply spiritual manner made it a privilege to take part in the four-day retreat. Another member spoke of it as being “transforming” – true for most of us! The meals were generous and delicious! I would have found it more helpful if the video had worked so that we could have seen the Thomas Merton photos with Esther’s comments. I had been looking forward to this presentation (advertised in the notes and programme). [Webeditor: our apologies - we were told to expect a DVD and had the right equipment set up. At last minute found it was a CD and we did not have the correct equipment. We now do if it should happen again.] This was the only hitch in an otherwise beautifully organised Retreat. The Pig Pens have been transformed and are ideal for myself – lovely views, a spacious and comfortable modern room. Thank you! |
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The Pig Pen accommodation provided for the disabled was excellent – the ‘wet room’ shower a great help. All the volunteers and community members were very friendly and supportive of my husband’s limitations with his physical condition. It was very refreshing to be cared for and free from domestic tasks for a few days, and a great rest for me. We enjoyed the peaceful atmosphere and the peace of the chapel. We would have found our stay more useful/helpful/enjoyable if… I found the retreat programme rather busy with three visits to chapel each day, plus three sessions, lots of coming and goings, but all very near. I was sorry the dvd and slide show Esther had planned was frustrated by the equipment problems! [Webeditor: our apologies - we did not have the correct information on the format and discovered too late that we did not have the correct equipment. Now sorted.] But she was good at creating pictures with words and helped us to ‘see’ by learning to reflect and gaze rather than glance and pass on. |
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Esther was such a good Retreat conductor - unselfconscious, unpompous and brimming with ideas so you felt there was a vast hinterland of further ideas; a person of great depth and faith, but also very approachable and interested in everybody. Had lovely chat with her – mainly to thank her for the Retreat three years ago she conducted on St. Benedict. Sheldon worked its usual magic, and the food was as yummy as ever. I would have found my stay more useful/helpful/enjoyable if… what a shame that the equipment to show the disc of Thomas Merton’s photos wasn’t working. This was clearly a great disappointment to Esther. These things happen, but it seemed a bit pathetic and one expects better things. [Webeditor: our apologies - we were told to expect a DVD and had the right equipment set up. At last minute found it was a CD and we did not have the correct equipment. We now do if it should happen again.] |
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| Food and hospitality – as always – wonderful. Sheldon has become my spiritual home over the years. Retreat really enjoyable – Barbara and Robert have helped me see something of the spirituality of both art forms. Other members of the group super people. We gelled well and quickly. It would have been more enjoyable if I had had more sleep! Finding myself in a room next to someone who can snore for England was no fun! For the first time I return home feeling sleep-deprived. [Webeditor: we're now rebuilding the Long Barn.] Thank you to all community and volunteers. |
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| It helped me see the good in life again – the fun and beauty and love and sometimes you really have to make yourself look and then it all unravels. It would have been more enjoyable if it were longer! |
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| I felt welcomed, uplifted and brought back to some basic pleasures in life: good food, a comfortable bed and beautiful rural surroundings. It would have been more enjoyable if you had en suite facilities and a daily paper to read. [Webeditor: we're now rebuilding the Long Barn.] |
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| I had a mental, physical and spiritual freedom which was a most poignant pause in my journey. A wonder experience. All most welcoming and hospitable. Thank you so much. |
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| I found my stay useful/helpful/enjoyable because it was all the three and much more; I just love being here at Sheldon because it is a “special place” where, for me, God is happy to reveal himself/herself “in spirit and in truth”. Everything works and weaves together to create the loving space. This retreat gave me space in my busy people fitted life to look at something new – photography and discover yet another way of meeting the divine in the world around and in one another. The theme “The fool sees not the same tree that a wise man sees” was carefully unfolded during the course of the days. There was a great balance between silence, beautiful shared worship and rich and challenging teaching and information sessions. For me it all worked very well – please more of the same. Robert and Barbara were excellent retreat leaders. It was great as it was – but if it was a day longer – even better. Pax et Bonum to all. P.S. Menus were great and “service” as always lovely. |
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| Excellent retreat – touching on spirituality from an enjoyable angle. Wise and sensitive guides. Wonderful location and peacefulness – contrast to my urban life. Good food and company. Accommodation could be a bit more comfortable – consistent smell of toilet deodorants in gents bathroom/toilet downstairs …. when showering. [Webeditor: we're now rebuilding the Long Barn.] |
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| I had the space and time to play; a lot of trust was built up in the group v. quickly; I felt cared for by the people helping, the food, the room and the provision of a ‘comforts box’. The retreat freed me to look at things in a different way. There were times to be silent and times to talk. It would have been more enjoyable if there had been an en-suite bathroom. The general rule of no ‘shop’ talk is good but sometimes the ‘restriction’ on not ‘ministering’ to others (and allowing them to do the same for you) was hard to keep to, especially on this type of retreat where a high level of trust built up quickly, where there was a mix of people and where we shared stuff quite deeply. Overall, a fantastic week with two very different retreat conductors and a brilliant group – we were all pushed out of our comfort zone – but outwards (an inwards) to new places of growth, freedom and exploration. |
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| Stimulating input, sufficient time and quiet for reflection , framework of worship, normal wonderful hospitality, opportunities to share the time with others … greatly appreciated, thank you. It would be more enjoyable if you were to rebuild the Long Barn! [Webeditor: we're now rebuilding the Long Barn.] |
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| My stay was so enjoyable because of the welcoming hospitality and the peaceful atmosphere, and good food and comfort, and beautiful grounds, all of which I have come to expect at Sheldon. The retreat was inspiring and encouraging; the leaders excellent. The programme was full of interest and I like the variety. There was a balance that suited me, not only betweeen the poetry and photography, but also between concentration and meditation, practical and theory, together times and alone times, fun and contemplation. It all tied together in a fascinating way. The whole Sheldon experience left me feeling, in a phrase of a poem we were given to read (Shadows, D.H. Lawrence), “.. dipped again in God, and new-created.” |
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| It has been a time away from the rush of life; - church, work, family and ministry. Not having to think about food and meals I found really helpful – a chore that was taken way from me. The silence came as a pleasant surprise and one which I really valued. Margaret Silf’s led retreat was excellent and thought provoking. I have much to take back with me. Perhaps the retreat could have been advertised as a silent one. Thank you for the time away here at Sheldon - for all your care and attention and for your quiet presence. |
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| Useful – I feel more equipped by/through expert teaching and a wonderful distilled wisdom to reach out again to a needy world. Thank you Margaret Silf for your exquisite sensitivity and ability to communicate in such a profound way. Helpful – the silence “shone” all around and saturated channels were cleared in a mystical way so that once again I was able to hear my own heart cry – and that of the Father heart. Enjoyable - I felt enveloped by God and nurtured in a very special way. A graced time. It would have been more enjoyable if the accommodation in the Long Barn had been less draughty – ancient window frames and all that!! The beautiful wooden stairs to the bedrooms had had some sort of noise dampeners on them – even when I crept it still seemed like jungle drums were proclaiming my advance or retreat. The main gathering room had enjoyed much much more natural light – we seemed always to be an almost womblike area. [Webeditor: we're now rebuilding the Long Barn.] But all the above are minor things compared with the warmth, hospitality, superb food and generous ambience of Sheldon. Thank you all … I feel so blessed and nurtured. |
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| My stay was most enjoyable because of (1) the friendly welcome after a difficult journey driving into the sun (2) the well designed and comfortable ‘pig pen’ accommodation, with self-service drinks available (3) the well led spirituality sessions by Margaret Silf about our journey through the sea of life: with all its ups and downs, through storms and safe harbour seeking our destination (4) the occasional individual walks around the beautifully kept Sheldon Estate, so refreshing in the December showers, with the birds singing (5) the well prepared Morning and Night Prayer liturgies in the Celtic tradition and (6) not least the excellently planned and well cooked menus, with individually prepared dishes for those with dietary needs. |
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| The stay was enjoyable because of the welcome and sense of being cared for; of the comfortable accommodation (in the Pound House); of the jacuzzi!!; of the content of the retreat; of the “little touches” like flowers in my room; the wonderful food. Thank you for a “chillout” week – the chance to recharge my spiritual battery!! My stay would have been more helpful if …the keeping of a more comfortable, less ~”forced” and therefore more meaningful silence had been eased by (a) music being played at mealtimes (b) a toaster at breakfast, so people could make their choice of brown and white toast as they are ready…. some art materials for people to use, either in a particular place, or (preferably) available for people to take to their own space (especially for those who are not used to using and shy of others seeing what they are doing!) |
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| Really enjoyed being in pig pen. It is always a place that makes one relax. The T.L.C. is practical and very evident without being intrusive. (Especial thanks to Jan for coping with my diet without my feeling embarrassed). Sheldon itself oozes peace and freedom to be oneself. Your anthem could be “brother, sister let me serve you, let me be as Christ to you”. I have no adverse comments. Thank you. I don’t suppose anything can be done about the background buzz (not the loo) which is rather noticeable at night? [Webeditor: we're now rebuilding the Long Barn.] |
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| I enjoyed the silence and therefore space “to be”; uncluttered space in which to worship God; really good nourishing and attractively served food, and always fresh fruit to be obtained; the cleanliness of Sheldon was a pleasure to enjoy; the care and attention to detail – the little vase of fresh flowers and ivy in my bedroom was an inspiration to me. Sheldon grounds are very attractively planted and well maintained; the buildings give me a great sense of peace and history and connectedness with the environment; the sense of all the community working together comes across. I am deeply grateful for all the blessings of this week. Magnificent scenery of the countryside surrounding Sheldon. The administration seems first class to me and the advertising material very attractive. As an outsider I didn’t understand what “The Fat Pigeon Flies” meant – nor “Pig Pens” – so found it difficult to respond to the advert for the book about Sheldon in your mailings! But now having visited I know what they mean! Thank you for everything – so very much appreciated – all the care and giving from the staff. It would have been more enjoyable if there had been more than one loo and sink for 9 people – but I know you plan to rectify this – and very adequate provision for us was made by going downstairs – thank you. [Webeditor: we're now rebuilding the Long Barn.] |
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| The food was better than ever and a real treat. Margaret Silf gave good value with the number of addresses given and that they were consistently interesting. The choice of music/sound effects was intriguing and added a lot to the theme. It was lovely see Freda. I always enjoy the worship when Freda leads it. There was a problem re the silence at the Retreat as some people hadn’t realised that there would a rule of silence. It might be helpful if the silence is mentioned with the information re EACH RETREAT in the brochure. The silence at Sheldon retreats is usually very good and has its own atmosphere but this rather spoiled it and made me feel anxious. I was game to go to anything at Sheldon and am encouraging friends to go, so let my friend choose which event she would like as I was happy with any, so Margaret Silf, whom she is very keen on, wasn’t my first choice. Nevertheless, it was worthwhile APART from the “Guided meditation”, but lots of people probably liked this – it just didn’t work for me. The as it were “total experience” of Sheldon is the thing, and this worked its magic again and it was lovely to be there. Felt tired, frazzled and spiritually flat on arrival, but perked up during the week. |
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| Staff were caring and sensitive. I felt all my needs were being looked after and yet I didn’t feel intruded on. I enjoyed the peace and quiet – lovely warm bathroom! Thank you to you all. Massage was wonderful. The stay would have been more helpful if there was a lock on the bedroom door. [Webeditor: we're now rebuilding the Long Barn.] |
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| There was a very pleasant, peaceful atmosphere about the place and the Community were most helpful and caring. The food was very good and just as I liked it – simple, home-cooking, using much home-grown produce. The very large estate is an amazing place, safe to explore – alone or with a friend – and we were blessed with wonderful warm, sunny weather – in October! It was good to be able to share worship with the Community at the beginning of each day in the lovely new Chapel. The retreat was very well organized by Robert and Barbara; everyone mixed very quickly and our sessions and worship together were excellent. A time of great blessing. |
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It was friendly and generous. It was comfortable and clean. It offered time and space. Meals were excellent, especially the toast and marmalade! There was a strong sense of sharing between staff and the visitors. Both chapels were wonderful. The library was most welcoming and lovely. Really can’t think of anything at all that would have made the stay more enjoyable. Thank you to you all for your care, concern and generous spirit. |
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The stay was helpful because other people have taken care of the ‘doing’, so I can just be me for a bit. Thank you so much for your call to stewardship and service. I can’t think how it could be improved on! Thank you too especially for catering for my vegan meals – and for the dairy free biscuits etc. It has been touching to feel cared for. |
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Once again Sheldon gave me the space I needed to rediscover bits of me that are normally hidden. It was wonderful to be able to spend time doing things I enjoy (or doing nothing) without feeling guilty. The food was great and the staff team helpful as always. We break into the community but are made to feel so welcome. Robert and Barbara led a wonderful retreat. I have felt truly spoilt this week. Thank you. It would have been more enjoyable if the beds were wider! |
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| ... the calm of the place and the unobtrusive hospitality enabled me to step back from the mad rush for a few days and take time to be quiet with God. |
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| ... the site is beautiful - naturally and beautifully, thoughtfully laid out - one senses "spirit" in every detail. I loved the saints "stations" in the woods - delightful, playful. I loved the unobtrusive, caring hospitality - details like cake left out when we came back from the walks. I loved being looked after, instead of doing the looking after. I loved the quiet pattern of offices. The retreat itself was a wonderful opportunity to re-connect with mindfulness. Enjoyed it all and returned home refreshed. Thanks! |
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... of the excellent food, good company and great choice of walks.
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| ... of the high quality of the facilities and the care and service provided by the members of the community. Also, the retreat itself was a great blessing - well organised and led and with plenty of space in the programme to reflect. |
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... the retreat gave me a structure for praying, thinking, relaxing, enjoying creation. The three different walks were well considered (and planned). Prayers/readings at beginning and end of our day were helpful. I loved having the story and music after compline. I appreciated the sensitive way I was 'allowed' to go at a pace I could manage. Thank you Dorothy and Roy.
I would have found my stay more useful/helpful/enjoyable if ... we had thought/talked about giving something (financial!) to the drivers. Petrol is not cheap. As someone who came by train, I appreciated being driven. I would have gladly given a contribution to my driver(s). |
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... I had time to unwind and appreciate the healing power of Sheldon. As I am no longer a part of a "team" ie. parish clergy, I appreciated the times of worship and prayer. The accommodation is first class. Thanks again for the fellowship of Mary and Martha.
I would have found my stay more useful/helpful/enjoyable if ... we had had more time to "stop and stare" on the walks. I was so busy watching my step, that I was not thinking "Holy thoughts"! |
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... a period of peace and reflection. Wonderful hospitality and a caring group.
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| ... being a guest rather than a volunteer made me realise how valuable and important and so carefully planned all the background work done beforehand makes an event go so well. Dorothy and Roy led this retreat so well - sensitively, just the right pace and a good balance of silence and talking. As usual, the food was lovely. |
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~ Angela Tilby's excellent leadership, of which the daily eucharist and evening prayer were an important part.
~ The community's guarding of Sheldon as a place of beauty, solitude and silence.
~ The excellent food and wonderfully appointed and comfortable Pig Pen - I felt privileged and pampered!
Therefore, more of this kind of retreat, please!
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~ It would have been good to end the day with compline, say at 9pm
~ Though I entered into conversation at Thursday's supper with enthusiasm, in retrospect I wondered if it would have been better to keep the silence until Friday breakfast, as I think we did for Esther de Waal's retreat on Benedict. |
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... The quality of the care, together with a place that is all about making space and allowing God in in a very natural way. All of it really. Thank you.
I would have found my stay more useful/helpful/enjoyable if ... hard to see how anything could have been improved on. So ... this is a suggestion not a criticism. At some point in the on-going development a room where people on retreat could play with clay or paint or otherwise be creative would be great - but it is a wonderful place even without! |
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…your wonderful hospitality and the serenity of the atmosphere … everything was wonderful – weather great – food excellent and Pig Pen spoilt me dreadfully … as always a delight to share time with you all … thank you for arranging Angela as the conductor – I have great admiration for her. Thank you for everything. I look forward to future ‘Fringe's
I would have found my stay at Sheldon more enjoyable if ... I had not kept losing my duvet during the night – not used to a single bed – not that I expect you to provide a double!! |
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… of the silence, the prayer, the content of the retreat, the way it was led by Rev Angela Tilby who interpreted the ‘thoughts' in such a relevant way for today. She has a light touch as well as a wealth of knowledge and a great sense of humour. The services in the chapel were so meaningful and the opportunity for private prayer in the Chapel of Christ the Servant was also helpful … the sun shone, it was warm and lovely walks in the grounds … the warmth of the Community in their welcome and subsequent care I found an example to us all … a very special and, I hope, to be repeated time
I would have found my stay at Sheldon more enjoyable if … maybe clearer direction signs for the walks in the grounds – I have very poor navigational skills even on two feet! |
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…the hospitality is wonderful, the setting is spectacular, the food is delightful … as a ‘back sufferer' I found the bed very hard but an appeal to Hillary brought a foam mattress and an extra duvet which made sleeping much easier. Thank you Hillary.
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... spacious peaceful environment for body, mind and spirit facilitated by unobtrusive presence of the community.
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... I felt very comfortable and at ease. The place is warm and welcoming and staff discreet, yet available. Food is excellent, as I am a very fussy eater!
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… the staff were as welcoming and helpful as always even though they had to do it silently .… stimulating input with lots of space from Jonathan although without the ‘discussion' (which broke our silence a bit) it would have been poorer .… fantastic grounds and countryside … thanks Philippa for the massage.
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… there was music at meal times, but for me the silence was fine as was a silent drink in the fat Pigeon bar .… it might have been good to know someone else was coming from my deanery. Is this possible while at the same time respecting confidentiality?
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... my stay was absolutely perfect for many reasons the chief one being that the Dean of Exeter was leading the sessions. |
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I found my stay at Sheldon useful because of …the warmth and comfort of the thoughtfully designed and fully equipped Pig Pen with its superb view. All other rooms and spaces we used were bright, modern spick and span and in perfect working order .… the brilliant and perceptive retreat addresses, and the learning experience and good humour of the conductor and the fact that it was a genuine silent retreat .… the utter stillness .… the good weather .… excellent walk plans. |
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Thank you all so much for your welcome, friendliness and care and discreet thoughtfulness. Thanks be to God for the vision and for its implementation.
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~ the staff were very welcoming and helpful.
~ the setting is superb. I enjoyed walking in the woods and fields.
~ the poetry and the way it was put across was food for mind and heart and spirit
~ the buildings were so right for refreshment and prayer – especially the old chapel.
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I found the process of leading a retreat stimulating and personally refreshing partly because of the preparation I had to do partly because of the place and partly because of the community here. Your commitment to assisting the Retreat experience for others is self-evident and very supportive.
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| ... I enjoyed the good food, the beautiful spot, the peace and tranquility of the area, the attractive library and beautiful, prayerful chapels. The warmth of the community and volunteers was also greatly appreciated. |
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... Interesting course content. Good accommodation and food!!! Temperature good!
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| ... during our four day silent retreat, all the helpers were so helpful and quietly unobtrusive. There is an atmosphere of peace and quiet both inside, and out in the grounds. We were very well fed for healthy appetites; all the meals tasty, and I much enjoyed the home made soup and green fruit salad. All food meticulously and time consumingly prepared. Thank you for helping to make the retreat a lovely spiritual experience. |
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~ Jonathan Meyrick has led the retreat with care and sensitivity.
~ It has been interesting including "discussion sessions" in a silent retreat: useful given the subject and not intrusive (as I thought at first it might be).
~ The weather has been kind!
~ The care of us by the community has, as always, been lovely! Thank you to you all.
~ The friendly and sensitive support from the volunteers.
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~ We had not broken the silence quite as early ('though it was a consensus decision, and I always find it difficult to "come out of the silence". |
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... warm welcome; beautiful surroundings; good food; lots of space to 'be' and pray; well ordered workshop; good addresses.
I would have found my stay more enjoyable if ... the Long Barn bedrooms had en-suite facilities - most especially a washbasin! and were perhaps a little larger. But, I know you have plans. |
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| ...A quick note to say how much I enjoyed my stay at Sheldon last week for the "Monastic Heart" Retreat. I found Sheldon a comfortable and welcoming place to stay - and I particularly appreciated the little posy of flowers in my room when I arrived - that really made it feel like home. So, many thanks. |
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| ... As always, wonderfully welcoming and comfortable, a most excellent space and a beautifully run retreat. |
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| ... Thank you very much for the Retreat last week. We gained immeasurably from it ... heads, hearts and bodies! |
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| ... Tamworth Pig Pen has been brilliant! Walk-in shower room - good bed and kitchenette facilities just what was needed. All adds up to a good way to achieve space, quiet and input from the speaker. Thank you! |
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... It was an excellent retreat in a comfortable setting. The worship hit the right note of peace and simplicity. The accommodation (the Long Barn) was warm and comfortable. The high standard of cleanliness adds to the feeling of tranquility. The quality of the food is excellent. This has been an excellent stay for me. Thanks very much.
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... The retreat was extremely well organised - the best I've ever been on. Esther de Waal was exceptional, and all was very well done. The food was great - plain good ingredients simply but very well prepared - delicious. Both the chapels are wonderful places. The meeting rooms etc are very comfortable. The setting is beautiful. The people are very special.
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... a place of rest and solace
... a place of being re-invigorated
... great walking
... beautiful chapels
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... Amazing sense of peace space and every need catered for with love. Good talks. Comfortable and warm.
I would have found my stay more useful/helpful/enjoyable if ... A sense of frustration that the 4.30pm talk always meant I couldn't quite make it to Community prayers at 5pm, as talk usually finished about 5.05 or 5.10pm. I found the Community prayers more helpful than Retreat prayer, which was possibly too wordy) |
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| ... of your generosity and kindness in understanding where I am, at this present time in my spiritual journey. I greatly value your prayers. |
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~ warm atmosphere
~ comfortable bedroom
~ good food
~ lots of space inside and out
~ freedom to make tea/coffee whenever, even during the night
~ wonderful sense of history
~ great walks
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~ decent food and reasonable accommodation (bedroom)
~ good communal facilities
~ superb organisation
All this meant that was truly a time for me without the worry of having to deal with domestic issues. I very much valued Esther's input and the silence.
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~ very comfortable room
~ delicious food
~ warm
~ quiet
~ lovely walks
~ helpful staff
~ beautiful surroundings
~ thoughtfully arranged
~ sense of God's presence in many of the rooms
~ happy - joy-filled volunteers |
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| ... the company was great and the food hit the button for such an occasion! It was a period when I could sound out a representative gathering on what I hold dear, and it wasn't until I reached home that I realised that the kind of spirituality I was teaching was that of Mary and Martha! I shall develop this theme for a future occasion. (Brendan O'Malley - retreat leader) |
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| ... of the peace of the place, the beauty of the surroundings, the friendliness and hospitality of the staff, the attention to detail in the comfort of our room and the spirituality and quietness of stillness. Would it be possible to invite Brendan O'Malley back to do a two week Celtic Spirituality/Body Mystical Teaching and Experimental course next year or, if not, a Part 2! Everything was perfect! |
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. of the food - especially prepared - the content - the company - the rabbits and sheep - the woods and fields - the weather - outside tables and chairs.
I would have found my stay more useful/helpful/enjoyable if ... we had a Part 2, as there was so much more material than there was time for. Someone could give the birds some sleeping pills as they made so much noise all night in Room 9 of the Long Barn. |
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~ of the love, hospitality, beauty and comfort I have experienced here from your community
~ the content of the course which has given me so much to reflect on when I return home
~ the lovely Berkshire Pig Pen with so much attention to 'the little things'
~ the wonderful food!
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... it gave me time out, but in the company of lovely people. Brendan gave us plenty to think about and made it fun. I've rediscovered the joy of being.
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... I needed to get away from the military environment and have space both mental, spiritual and physical. Sheldon has been one of the spiritual staying posts over the years, as I have made my way. The food and service have been excellent.
I would have found my stay more useful/helpful/enjoyable if ... Brendan's presentations had included some visual material. On balance, another Celtic mass would have helped. |
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| ... the Retreat was all I had hoped it would be; the accommodation was perfect, the food excellent and the staff lovely. Even the weather was better than expected! Many thanks for a real time of refreshment. Every blessing on all the work you do in caring, enabling and equipping so many people. |
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... it was not what I usually go for (total silence and IGR). There was silence, but also conversation and very stimulating input from Brendan O'Malley. In fact, there was more than I could process at the time, so I've got something to take away with me. The hospitality of Sheldon was great - warm, human, respectful and unobtrusive.
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~ The community are unobtrusively caring and helpful
~ The food is excellent, well prepared and balanced and presented wonderfully
~ The accommodation is first class,clean, warm and homely
~ The base if perfect for walking - very tranquil with beautiful views
~ The led retreat was relaxed and informal - room to breathe! |
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| ... Excellent facilities - warm welcome, comfortable room, catering superb (thank you Jan, and helpers Freda and Anne). A place to relax and leave parish concerns behind. Walks on Dartmoor uplifting, especially the wide open spaces from one cairn to the next. The sounds of nature - birdsong, the wind - and the panoramic views speak of God in Creation speaking to us. A stay at Sheldon goes by all too quickly! |
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~ Very tasty and plentiful food and drinks
~ Beautiful peaceful setting
~ Comfortable and attractively restored accommodation
~ Marvellous countryside and moors for walking
~ Welcome of community staff and inclusion in worship
~ Care and thought put into preparation
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~ reading light in room or sitting rooms
~ Use of well lit (daylight) area for art/craft
~ Structured time of worship/meditation at beginning rather than end of day for the Retreat
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~ The excellent and stimulating leadership by Margaret Silf
~ The excellent accommodation all round, and especially the "Pig Pen"!
~ The welcoming and relaxed attitude of those on duty
~ Being able to join with the community in morning worship |
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... It was a time of real growth for me - thank you! The most important contributing factor for me was the creation of, and respect for, personal space. The retreat liturgies were excellent and I found Margaret Silf's inputs helpful.
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I couldn't help noticing that quite a few of your light bulbs are still ' old-fashioned'. I have found BLT Direct very good for low energy bulbs in all sorts of odd shapes and sizes. Just a suggestion! |
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~ warm and friendly welcome
~ excellent accommodation and hospitality and catering
~ Quality of retreat input with Margaret
~ Overall a wonderfully refreshing few days
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~ of the excellent leadership of the retreat by Margaret Silf
~ of the thoughtfulness and peacefulness of the worship
~ of the tranquility of the surroundings
~ of the inclusivity of the community
~ of the good food |
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| ... The daily talks were visionary and inspiring - and amusing. Impeccable, unobtrusive hospitality. Delicious food. Enjoyed my solitary walks. Refreshing and invigorating. Many thanks. |
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~ useful - because of the peace, the space, the input from worship and leader.
~ helpful - new insights into faith and life.
~ enjoyable - because, as always, I was so well cared for in every way.
It has been a real treat to stay here. I feel refreshed and energised for the Advent and Christmas 'rush'. I especially appreciate the flower arrangement in the bedroom.
... I really cannot think of any way you could make things better. Everything is done to such a high standard. Thank you for your continuing ministry. It is much appreciated. |
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... Margaret Silf gave us plenty of food for reflection - including printed sheets both of content and "extras" (quotes etc). She was refreshingly open and natural, not imposing anything, but suggesting, sensitively.
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... of the quality of the leadership - its honesty and integrity. The warmth and welcome of all the community and volunteers, who made my stay restful, relaxing and fun, especially Jan and Freda. The beauty of the surroundings - the colour of the autumn leaves was lovely. To be able to amble about the woods and fields in safety, as a woman on her own, was very special.
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... It's a beautiful location with plenty of walks and activities. Everything was very well organised and very clean and comfy. The local lamb was FAB (to eat!). The retreat was just right for me, with a good balance of silence for reflection, and discussion. Care is taken over the use of Fair Trade and recycling. I did most of my Christmas shopping here. Thank you!
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~ Comfortable accommodation
~ Extremely friendly and welcoming (both members of the community and volunteers)
~ Beautiful situation
~ The retreat itself was exceptional and extremely well led.
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| ... Thank you so much for the invitation to lead the retreat. We both enjoyed the experience immensely and have had some kind and encouraging feedback from members of the group. The thoughtful and generous way that we were cared for made such a difference and enabled us to focus, as we needed to, on the group. Thank you so much. |
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... Sheldon has come up trumps yet again. The welcome has as usual been welcoming. The peace of Sheldon has enveloped me. The retreat was absorbing, affirming and refreshing : the right balance of activity and reflection, group time and alone time. The food was splendid. The Pig Pens have turned out very well. I would be very happy to take a private retreat in one. The views are stupendous. The leaders of the retreat were excellent. Thanks for a blessed time and experience.
I would have found my stay more useful/helpful/enjoyable if ... It's a small point, but I wonder whether the automatic light outside the front door can be adjusted so it comes on a fraction earlier as you walk up the path when it's dark - I realise you don't want the light coming on every time someone walks down the main path.[Webeditor: no it can't be adjusted unfortunately, but we are investigating alternatives to solve the problem] |
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| ... I just wanted to write and say a big THANK YOU to everyone for the love and care that I experienced on retreat last week. It was a great blessing and I really felt that the community was 'holding' us throughout our time with you. May the Lord bless you all richly as you bless so many others in your ministry to those in ministry themselves. God Bless. |
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... The retreat 'Reading the Light' was such a creative experience with such good leaders. The times of prayer including the 8am Community Prayer very helpful in having regular workshops throughout the day. It was great to walk in the grounds. In all a very remarkable experience, helped by very friendly volunteers and the Community. To be highly recommended. Also the meals were extremely enjoyable and healthy.
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... The gentle care of the community is as impressive as ever. The Pig Pens are really lovely now. The under-floor heating made it very comfortable even in frost. Food and massage were really comforting/relaxing. The retreat worked well. Robert and Barbara fed the imagination and I found it a wonderfully creative time. It was great to be able to be so creative. I found beside sight and hearing, my sense of touch also improved. Time to "notice" things. Working in a creative group was interesting as well, for ideas came off each other. The group could not have been much bigger or it would need to split, so this was an ideal size. The final montage linking pictures and poetry was wonderful and must have taken a lot of work. Thanks.
I would have found my stay more helpful/useful/enjoyable if ... We missed the Loose Box/Fat Pigeon, particularly in the hiatus between communion at 6 and dinner at 7 - we gathered, separated, re gathered. After the day, the interaction in the Loose Box would have been good. I struggled with the mental activity required to respond to the paintings and the music chosen for the two evenings. I was too tired I think. This might have been better at, say, 4.30pm and responding to our photos at 8.15. |
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... Our accommodation in Tamworth Pig Pen was very comfortable. We were well looked after and fed by the Community and volunteers. The combination of poetry and photography worked well. My interest was in photography, but my contributions to the poetry sessions were valued too. There was no right or wrong interpretation and we had good feedback from the leaders and other participants. There was a good balance of sessions, free time and silence and worship. The jacuzzi and massage were a relaxing bonus. The level of acceptance was very high and it was refreshing to be in an uncritical environment. The amazing weather enabled us to enjoy the grounds and countryside too.
I would have found my stay more useful/helpful/enjoyable if ... several participants would have liked the Fat Pigeon to be opened before supper in particular, though we realised it wasn't practical during the silence in the evening! This became more so as we got to know each other and began to gel as a group. |
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... A wonderful safe place to be in a time that seemed full of darkness. The love, care and support I found helped me to see glimpses of light. I valued the opportunity to be creative through reading poems and taking photographs. Seeing things I've never noticed; looking at things in a different way; experimenting with photography and realising that you can see through shadows. Jan's massage is highly recommended. Good food and comfortable accommodation. I look forward to coming back ... Thank you!
I would have found my stay more useful if ... I could have stayed longer and didn't have a busy weekend ahead!! |
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1. Excellent retreat leader.
2. Very good facilities, food, setting.
3. Caring, gentle community, with a wonderful gift of hospitality - thank you!
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... Many thanks for an amazing few days; the natural beauty of Sheldon; the silence and peace; the kindness of everyone; the good plain wholesome fare. My bed was comfortable and my room much nicer than I had been led to expect from the website pictures. The walks in the copse and hills around Sheldon gave opportunity for thought and prayer, and a bonus not advertised was enjoying silent communication with the ginger cat, the poultry in their pen, and the two sheep of a rare breed in the paddock. I came home full of energy and my stay seems, unexpectedly, to have brought out more of the Martha in me rather than the Mary! This message also seemed to speak to me from Esther's interesting talks: the balance of work, study and prayer. I would also like to add special thanks for all the sensitive help given to me regarding my severe hearing loss. The introduction in text form, and the handwritten daily intercessions and Bible references for the services, were particularly helpful, as was Esther's kind consideration.
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... The whole ethos and atmosphere of the place, the warm hospitality and the beautiful grounds were relaxing and provided an ideal environment for the silent retreat. All the staff and community members were open, helpful and supportive. Freda's ministry both in worship and in daily living was much appreciated. Esther's leadership and open approach together with her scholarship were a great gift. I was extremely appreciative of a warm, spacious room with ensuite facilities - a gift I had not expected to receive - thank you. The daily eucharist was very important for me.
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... I was dreading Sheldon would have lost its "magic" after all this time, but it hadn't. The silence in Sheldon retreats is always very natural and no effort. The accommodation and food are lovely (but I missed home-made soup this time). Thanks Sarah for wangling me a place - the retreat has actually been very significant.
I would have found my stay more useful/helpful/enjoyable if ... only very small point - but where is the little leaflet in your room with your name on welcoming you to Sheldon? That was always such a nice touch - please do it again. |
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~ Quiet, efficient, care
~ Good organisation, directions, punctuality
~ Prayerful environment
~ Good range of facilities, beneficial spaces
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| ... It was lovely to come back again. I really enjoyed walking round the extended Sheldon grounds. It worked very well as a setting for a silent retreat (despite the noise from the building work!) It was a privilege to be with Esther and share in her wise and gentle insights. |
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... The food was excellent and my gluten-free diet was very well-catered for. The staff were so friendly and helpful - nothing was too much trouble. The worship was helpful - little and often! The surroundings were excellent and very conducive to peace and quiet (despite the builders who were not at all intrusive!) There was an atmosphere which I can't really describe but made one feel at home. I shall definitely come back.
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~ Very warm welcome
~ Excellent food
~ Peace and relative quiet (only because of building works!)
~ Above all - prayerful atmosphere and Esther's wonderful talks - all eleven of them.
I would have found my stay more useful/helpful/enjoyable if .... There is a very noisy light-pull in the upstairs WC in the Long Barn. It reverberated throughout the upstairs - but this is very very minor! How I am ashamed that I have written that. You are all wonderful! |
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~ the led input spoke to me personally; and I was grateful for the silence
~ the led input was 'about right' in amount, leaving plenty of space for reading, reflection, prayer and other things.
~ the environment is ideal for a retreat : beautiful countryside, a variety of walks, lovely views around Sheldon.
~ the facilities are comfortable and improving all the time! Two stunningly beautiful chapels - each in their own different way. I found the old chapel a wonderful haven.
~ and perhaps most important, the helpful, caring, attentive community for whom nothing seems too much trouble - giving so generously and unobtrusively of themselves.
~ and the jacuzzi for some pampered relaxation!
Thank you for a wonderful time again, and for your most valuable supporting ministry.
I would have found my stay more useful/helpful/enjoyable if ...
~ I've been dying for a cup of proper (filter) coffee - and there are some excellent Fair Trade ones available. At least at breakfast, first thing in the morning (!), would it be possible to install a coffee filter machine in the dining area?
~ A small, but significant point, not intended as a criticism of the excellent leading of worship on this retreat, but a suggestion for making this even more helpful - would be if some of the content from the 'input sessions' could be woven into the worship - as prayers and possibly readings. I feel that sense of connectedness would have helped. |
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... the congruence of the gentle rhythm of life at Sheldon with learning about the rule of St Benedict through the silence, allowed me to experience simultaneously both peace and challenge. Thanks to Esther for her calm delivery, her insights and her sensitivity. She was and is a great blessing. Thanks too for the very many little blessings - food, tea, a room in the Pound House and Jan's great (as in brilliant) thumbs (massage). Thanks too, to David and Freda.
I would have found my stay more enjoyable if ... the bathroom extractors didn't stay on in the Pound House when only one person leaves theirs on. [Webeditor: new reminder notices now displayed!]
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~ This place has become my "spiritual home".
~ Esther brought St Benedict alive : soaked as she clearly is in both the man and his Rule.
~ The worship was beautifully led.
~ The hospitality, by community, staff and volunteers, just right, and the food - as always - great.
I would have found my stay more enjoyable if ... the weather had been better! But not even you have control over that and it stayed dry for most of the time! Thank you.
P.S. the building site was not that obtrusive!
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Just a note to express my deep thanks for a wonderful period of rest and reorientation. Sheldon is a fantastic place, and much needed. I could have been on a psychiatric ward - instead I've been in a gorgeous peaceful place, where everything is offered and nothing is forced. Thanks to all of you for making this place so wonderful,and for the contribution each of you has made to setting me on the road to recovery.
Carl - for your disarming 'I'm just an ordinary geezer' act, and the shrewd, gentle and perceptive questioning.
Sarah - for understanding, acceptance and new insight.
Jan - for healing touch.
Hilary - for wonderful food, and calm, attentive hospitality.
Sue - for ordinary conversation and entirely adequate directions to a car park in Exeter.
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| ... I have wanted to have an opportunity to stay at Sheldon for a long time, and it exceeded my expectations in many ways, but chiefly because of the unforced friendly acceptance of the staff towards me, and their helpfulness. I am unused to such consideration, and was touched by it. The "pace" of the retreat, and the positive guidance were a great asset to a novice like me, and it was wonderful to have uncluttered space and time to think and "be" without the nagging feeling, so common in everyday life, that one should be doing something else, or making better use of one's time by being busier! A big "thank you" to Sheldon and everybody concerned. You are an example and an encouragement to us all. |
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... it gave me back my head which had been taken over by 3 young children. I felt pampered and cared for in every way - physically, emotionally and spiritually. At a time when I'm looking forward to re-starting my life after children. I finally had some time and space to focus on what I am being led to do. The peace was wonderful, scenery beautiful and accommodation very home from home (without the clutter and children). The retreat was just what I needed - Barbara Mosse was a lovely gentle leader and provided a good balance of meditation and silence. I hope to come back next year for something.
I would have found my stay more useful/helpful/enjoyable if ...
... can't think of anything much. Two chairs in twin rooms would be useful - the beds were too high to sit on in comfort and there was only one chair for two bottoms! |
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... Thank you to everyone for looking after us so well on the pre-Advent retreat. As usual, everything at Sheldon was simply excellent, and it is a great joy that you are there to accommodate us. I meant also to say to you how much I appreciated the photographs mounted on the dining room walls, especially the long landscape. They made all the difference when sitting with back to the garden. The retreat was led very well indeed by Barbara. To my mind not only were the addresses more stimulating than on earlier occasions, but the worship was so much more accessible, and ideal for a retreat situation. Thank you for taking on board our earlier comments in this respect.
There is just one slightly negative comment I'd like to make about this year's retreat, and that is about the degree of silence. I was surprised and a little alarmed when, on arrival, I discovered that silence could be broken during the afternoon and up to the end of supper. I thought it had been advertised as a "silent retreat", as is the equivalent event in 2006, though I've discarded the 2005 programme so might have remembered the details incorrectly. As it turned out there was only one part of the day where the talking of those who took up the non-silent option intruded on the two-thirds of us who wished to remain in silence. That was at supper, when the 'noisy' table really was noisy, with many outbursts of laughter and no attempt to moderate the noise level out of respect for the wishes of the rest of us. While it was possible to a great extent to close our ears to it all, I couldn't help being made to feel that our refusal to join in was somehow spoiling their party.
If partial silence is going to be the pattern for future retreats, could I suggest that those wishing to break silence be asked at supper time to keep their conversations at the level of talking quietly? As you're probably aware, I so love coming to Sheldon at this time of year, for the comfort of the accommodation, the warmth of the community and the beauty of the surroundings, that it would take more than a bit of noise at supper-time to keep me away! But I hope you don't mind my making these comments...
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... I enjoyed and benefitted from the guests who attended this course and without doubt Brendan was an extremely good tutor and very inspirational. The facilities were so right and the weather too!! Sheldon is such a relaxing area.
... As you anticipated at dinner, I would have liked more private facilities for washing etc - everything else was fine. |
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| ... I found my stay helpful, enjoyable, productive and refreshing because of my own interest in Celtic Christianity, which is not covered too often in Anglican Christian Retreats! I look forward to more Celtic spirituality study in the future, as I feel it covers that part of our Christianity which is seldom talked about and practiced regularly. Brendan O'Malley was open, honest and very sincere in his teaching, and made the whole course happy and enjoyable. |
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... It came at the right time. I valued the people who formed the group. I felt well cared for by the resident team and the hospitality, food and wine was great. For me there was good balance between silence and conversation. Brendan's retreat workshops were just right for me and helped me unravel some of my faith life stuff. The weather and the use of the tent!
... It might have helped to have a whole afternoon at least one day and therefore chance of an outing or longer walk, but that's picky because it has been very good/excellent. Arriving to find that two others in the group had travelled from just around the corner was a surprise and a list of participants and location might have led to some shared transport. |
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... The retreat was so beautifully organised and led by Brendan with imagination, sensitivity to everyone's needs and his wonderful humour and joy in living. I learnt a lot, loved the reverence of the worship, especially both Eucharist services and the worships were a delight - dances galore! We were a happy and compatible group. The setting of Sheldon is so beautiful and peaceful. Thank you for the many people who made us welcome, fed us so well and created an atmosphere of unobtrusive care. I arrived exhausted and left feeling refreshed and energized. My prayers remain with you for all the wonderful work you do.
... Because of mobility problems, I appreciated the use of a ground floor room with superb views. Thank you so much. I would like to become a Friend please. But how? [Webeditor: here!] |
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... of the beauty of the surroundings, the peace within the place and the care of all the community and volunteers. Thanks especially for all the extras you did for me for my food, the cake, the yogurt, the milk and the alternative meals. I really appreciated the them.
... A suggestion for making twin beds into doubles: 1. Remove the wheels. 2. Have a hook and bar that joins the beds together so they don't move. 3. Don't try and leave them as twins. [Webeditor: we're working on this.] Thank you to the community and volunteers; those we saw and those who were quietly working and praying and resting in the background. |
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... The setting is lovely, the buildings are attractive and the accommodation is good (a bit noisy at night, but I'm not sure what could be done about that). The food is excellent, and the staff are very friendly and welcoming. Thank you!
... A small point, but the maps could be clearer, both the map supplied with the directions and the site map, which I found a bit difficult to follow. A soap holder in the shower in the men's toilets downstairs would be useful. |
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... hospitality, meals, facilities for helping oneself good as ever. "Lord of Creation" was an outstanding course. I received help and encouragement from the people on it. Good balance of activity and silent meditation.
... A seat in the shade near the Long Barn would be rather good - a sun blind perhaps? |
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... of the thought which has gone into making the place so pleasant... I loved this retreat - Brendan O'Malley is such good value - I learned so much.
... My only slight moan is that there was not enough free time in the afternoons. The 3 o'clock session was a bit of a nuisance - though very enjoyable. |
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~ The food was wonderful.
~ The hospitality was excellent and the selection of beer good!
~ The quietness of the place in the evening.
~ Early morning in the chapel a great place to be.
~ All the Sheldon staff have an excellent ministry of hospitality and service.
~ Accommodation very much appreciated with a bath rather than shower - thanks.
~ The grounds and woods gave you an opportunity to be silent and on your own, and an opportunity to walk off all those calories, in time to ponder the thoughts.
My stay might have been more helpful/enjoyable/productive if ... there was a definite end to the silence in the morning. For example, perhaps saying grace at end of breakfast or, possibly, beginning the 1st session with 'O Lord open thou our lips ... and our mouth shall proclaim your praise'. On the instructions of what to bring - say 'a cheque book', because of the shop and the fact that lots of us now don't carry a lot of cash as we mostly use switchcard. [Webeditor: thanks for the suggestion - we're adding it to our literature. It's currently too expensive for us to offer a card facility]. |
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... The hospitality and welcome from the community has been first-class. The food, once again, has been excellent (and plentiful) and the weather ... well, what can I say? And Brendan's worships have been liberating and thought-provoking. I prepare to return home, feeling refreshed and better-equipped, and grateful, as before, for Sheldon - which is fast becoming a very special place in my heart.
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... of the peaceful surroundings and hospitable atmosphere.
My stay might have been more enjoyable if ... I had a room bigger than a cell and easy access to a wash basin and lavatory. [Webeditor: our smallest bedrooms are very small, but only get used for very popular events. The plus side is that we never ask single people to share.] |
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Thank you for my stay with you.
I found my stay helpful/enjoyable/productive because ... of the excellent welcome, quiet organisation, quiet friendliness, super, delicious and healthy food, the very thoughtful way in which different diets were catered for; the very obvious thoughtfulness in the days' layout; the little extras such as always available biscuits and refreshment (not that much extra was ever required!). It was good to be part of a community for a while, without any feeling of pressure. And, of course, Brendan's 'Lord of Creation' was refreshing, enlightening and fun. What a wonderful person!
My stay might have been more helpful/enjoyable/productive if ... I'd had the opportunity of being in a less claustrophobic room. Although, I tried to 'make it my own' for the time - it did feel extremely inhibiting and relaxing in it wasn't at all easy. (I do, however, realise that it isn't easy to fit everyone into suitable rooms for them.) Also - of course - it would have ben good to have had a nearer 'loo' at night. [Webeditor: see above] |
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| ... Brendan's teaching was so thought provoking, but given with such a light touch and with humour. The food, as always, was so imaginative, delicious and nutritious, and the general ambience was friendly, caring, but never intrusive. The extra fields have added a new dimension, and I hope to be able to come again (health permitting). Thank you to all. |
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~ of the beauty and peace of the place
~ the retreat was stimulating and often fun
~ the new chapel is very beautiful and already very prayerful
~ the resident community and volunteers were friendly and helpful and produced beautiful food!
~ I appreciated your grounds, and the suggestions for walks further afield (even though I didn't see the kingfisher).
My stay might have been more helpful/enjoyable/productive if ... my room door (Pound House 2) hadn't rattled whenever I had a window open. I tried locking it and even wedging it, but nothing stopped it.
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| ... Richard Eyre was a splendid retreat director. I think all that was needed was provided in abundance peace and solitude, a prayerful led retreat, good food and sensitive care all round thanks. |
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... First of all, enormous thanks to you Sarah, Hillary and Carl who make Sheldon what it is, as do Ian and Esme with their wonderful cooking. It was really good to be with you, and to experience the luxuries of the 'new improved' facilities. I was particularly grateful for the 'en-suite' facilities. Thank you. I also had fun wandering about, thinking:- "I think those are my bricks" and "I know those are my oak pegs!!" It really is very beautiful now, and a testament to enormous hard work and constant prayer.
As you may know, my taxi arrived 15 minutes early, so I'm afraid I didn't even have time to take the questionnaire out of the envelope. However, whatever it asked, I would have awarded top marks!! I cannot think of a single thing that was done without the customary grace and thoughtfulness that is Sheldon's trademark. Thank you for a wonderful space, full of blessings.
I did wonder (tho' not enough to talk to you about it!) whether a watercooler somewhere would be a good idea, or a clearly accessible place where drinking water could be found..... Perhaps the idea of all the plastic involved in a watercooler facility does not fit very well with Sheldon's ecological ideals? [Webeditor: we're thinking about this one].
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~ Accommodation in Pound House, excellent
~ Food, wonderful
~ Library, well-stocked
~ Grounds, beautiful
~ and thanks for the TV on election night!
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1. The kindness and friendliness of the staff.
2. Being able to roam around in the grounds and seeing so many wild animals and birds.
3. The lovely fresh green setting.
4. Being able to make coffee or tea at any time.
5. Having tea, coffee and milk provided in little kitchenette.
6. Good wholesome food.
7. The silence and quiet.
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~ The silence and surroundings were, as always, wonderful.
~ Richard's addresses were thoughtful and stimulating.
~ The food and hospitality, as always, lovely.
~ And, as promised by Sarah in the programme, the bluebells were at their best!
Thank you again - not least for the lovely quiet room! |
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... This is just a short note to thank you so much for looking after me (us) so well during the Jim Cotter retreat last week. The time was very special. I came stressed and tired and I left stimulated by input, relaxed by good food, good sleep, fresh air and great kindness, and quieted by silence, solitude and the simplicity of being on the receiving end of good input and having no other responsibilities. I seem to have come back to utter chaos and people in overdrive - a bit like Jesus coming down from the Mount of Transfiguration into a near riot - not that I am likening myself to Jesus! But, it shows that we cannot live on the mountain, just go for short and very refreshing breaks - and I have not yet lost my feelings of centredness and peace, so that is something.
I had a very good time and will certainly come again, next time bringing my over-stretched and over-stressed clergy husband with me. I want to show him what a lovely place Sheldon is.
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| ... My first impression was of how beautifully kept the buildings and surroundings were. The chapel (Mary, Martha and Lazarus) I found delightful, especially the beams, the icons and the view through the far window. Everything helped to offer an atmosphere of calm, recollection and journeying. Jim Cotter was stimulating, challenging and comforting. The food was delicious (especially the soups). Thank you. |
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| ... The chapel was wonderful - especially the Holy Family icon. The food was superb. I felt totally able to be "me" and not have to be or do anything other. I was so well cared for. |
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... It gave me the space I needed in warm comfortable surroundings. The food was great and plenty of it. Nothing seemed too much trouble for the staff who were all very caring. Thank you for a wonderful break.
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| ... I was exceedingly comfortable! Everywhere was comfortably warm and the radiator responsive. The room and en-suite facilities were well planned (shower etc all worked). (Last retreat, elsewhere, long walk to antique bathroom, and bath only!!) The food was delicious, plenty of it - also fruit available at each meal was really good. The possibility of making hot drinks in a realistically sized mug! I just marvel at the transformation you have achieved in the seven years since we first came, and wish you were much closer to home. Much quieter than I'd expected! |
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| ... I thoroughly enjoyed the Retreat last week. Although I missed the complete freedom of the Linhay, I found the rhythm of prayer, address and communion service very helpful. My faith is struggling a bit at the moment and I found the new language and old rituals re-interpreted most enriching and moving. It was good to experience more of Sheldon. The marvellous accommodation, and food, the beautiful chapel and the lovely walks. I enjoyed Friday night enormously including the conviviality and a chance to get to know the members of the community a bit better. Thank you all very much. |
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... The place, the hospitality and the content of the retreat were all excellent. For me, a welcome return and beautiful surroundings, enhanced me by the 'new' buildings. The food was great and generous - especially enjoyed the chicken and walnut casserole! Great to have the bar too - one up on the religious houses! Many thanks to all.
...would have enjoyed it more if it hadn't been quite so noisy in the Long Barn - every step, every door, every light switch is heard at night! Also would be good to have your own sink. But then, I've been spoilt by staying in the Linhay before, and of course the Pound House is palatial in comparison. [WebEd: Fair criticism of the Long Barn - this was a very full event, so problems exacerbated by large numbers] |
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| ... I did so enjoy my stay with you and found it helpful in many ways. I value most the love quietly and unobtrusively expressed in thoughtfulness and prayer. Very many thanks to you and everyone at Sheldon. |
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Truly it has been a 'holiday as much as a retreat.
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the cold water pipes between chalets 1A and B did not vibrate so violently (disturbing neighbours) [WebEd: now sorted by rebuilding as the Pig Pens].
Table lamp for the go-pac desk as well as at the bedside.
If I could have stayed for another month!
A loop system in the new chapel would have ensured that I didn't miss anything (I am deaf)
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... It was restful and gentle. I felt cared for but not overwhelmed. I had space and freedom in which to meet God and myself
The food was excellent
The public rooms were comfortable and attractive
It was very clean
The gardens and grounds are lovely and well-cared for
Information (eg. walks) was easy to find and follow
The library was well stocked
Initially, I was a bit perturbed by my small (double) room with its funny bunk bed - but, actually, I grew to like it rapidly! I suppose, in an ideal world, I would have liked a basin in my room - but really it was okay! |
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| ... There is an atmosphere of calm peacefulness. Plenty of time with no-one hurrying around. It was particularly helpful to have the library available and comfortable, with such a small bedroom it was not possible to sit and meditate there, but the library was a really good bolt-hole. It would be helpful to know if the tables in the Long Barn are heat resistant or coasters be provided! Thanks for a good stay. |
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... The Retreat itself : good combination of thought-provoking and soul-challenging stuff, and enough space for my own thoughts, prayers, walks, sleep etc. Food was really good - tasty and wholesome. Room - simple but all I needed, apart from a lower window to admire the view from Long Barn. Hospitality - lovely, caring and quiet, understanding and low-key. The Pound House is wonderful - reception, bar lounge and chapel are beautiful - well worth all the work and the waiting. I'll try the jacuzzi next time!
It might have been more enjoyable if I'd remembered my pyjamas! It was a bit cold sometimes at night, although showers and loos available downstairs I'd have felt awkward trailing down there in my dressing gown (which, thankfully I did pack!) ... and at the same time aware of the potential disturbance to those in next-door rooms to the facilities upstairs (I've stayed in one before). But, hey, can't have everything! |
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~ Because of the setting, living in London means constant noise, and a chronic inability to see the night sky.
~ Because of the warmth and comfort of the place and the generous and cheerful hospitality.
~ Because of the silence.
~ Because of the rhythm of the day. As a generally undisciplined person it is always good to have a rhythm of food, worship, space, reflection and sleep.
~ The daily eucharist in a beautiful chapel.
~ Not least the way time wore a tapestry of old and new ideas into a fabric that might be a 'throw' or a shawl for the future.
My only problem was the loos and the showers and the lack of wash basin in the room in the Long Barn. The shower itself was great - there just need to be more of them!
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~The setting is quiet and peaceful.
~The staff, both community and volunteers, were extremely friendly and helpful.
~Everything was dealt with efficiently.
~Jim Cotter's talks were brilliant; new insights, challenges, not a word wasted.
~The grounds themselves provide good walking facilities, plus there is plenty to see off-site.
~The food was simple and nourishing.
My stay at Sheldon might been more enjoyable if ..... my room had been nicer (Long Barn). It is definitely below current norms for size and facilities. It is unusual these days not to have at least a wash-hand basin. The trek to the showers/toilets was too long (I was inclined to leave the nearer one to those who lived near it). Jim's worship was a bit difficult at times, especially the eucharist, which bore no relationship to any mainstream liturgy! I know that is largely the point; but I personally found it hard work at times and difficult to understand. Oh, and mobile phone reception would have been nice - but that's not your problem, of course. |
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... Everything lovely! Food, accommodation, surroundings and the weather even, for the beginning of February, perfect for being outside. Community members around and always so pleasant, but never intrusive. Everywhere clean and cared for. We think you've got it just right. Plus, JC's input stimulating, thought provoking, but also gentle. My massage was great!
The only thing we didn't like was the Traidcraft tea and coffee. I know it's good to use them, but we stuck to fruit teas! |
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...The warmth of the hospitality and the excellence of the accommodation. The content of the addresses was helpful. Being able to attend the community worship was especially beneficial.... I just love being at Sheldon and having space! Thank you all so much.
...Could there be a list of names of retreatants (there might have been one that I missed) first names and where they came from would have sufficed. It would have made it even easier to pray for them.
Would it be possible to have one or two pictures on the wall facing the garden in the dining room? There is nothing to look at if you are sitting with your back to the view. I'd be happy to think of a picture to donate for this purpose if you thought it a good idea. I think a picture could be hung over the door into the Cider Press, and possibly one over the kitchen door/hatch. Just a suggestion. |
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- it's a good time of year to have some time away from work before the Christmas rush starts, and didn't take up either weekend!
- plenty of time to do my own thing: good walking/walks around the local area and comfortable sitting places in the warm!
- really nice to have a room to myself. Unusual even for adults on youth residential's (I'm a youth worker!)
- the food was lovely
- [better if] there was a dictionary in the library (maybe there already is and I just couldn't find anything!) (Yes, I am struggling to find anything!)
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- the addresses were well prepared and well delivered
- the surroundings were conducive to waiting on God
- the worship was quiet dignified and "unfussy"
- the meals were sustaining varied and nourishing especially for a vegetarian such as myself!
- [better if] the clatter of cutlery at mealtimes might have been less intrusive had a little light classical music been played. I don't say it spoiled the retreat, and may be opinion has been canvassed widely and I am in a minority, but since you ask, this is a very minor enquiry that may help, or not!
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| ... Time to relax, pray, sleep, read, walk. Thank you |
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... Helpful because of the addresses and because it gave me time to both relax and reflect.
... Enjoyable because of the lovely food, lovely grounds and lovely walks. I especially enjoyed visiting the lakes in the hills.
... Productive because it put me back in touch with God again.
[better if] I would have loved to stay longer.
The bed did seem a little narrow, but maybe that is a comment on me being too wide!! |
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Brigid was encouraging, open and honest, full of good things which she shared freely. The atmosphere of peace in spite of difficulties. The caring of Hillary and Lindsey. Thank you. |
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... of the skill, humour and wisdom of the Retreat Leader - the size of the group was very helpful too. As always the beauty and peace of the place is very healing. Your welcome and gentle care enables growth and refurbishment. It was sheer joy to stay in the luxury of the Pound House - I still can't quite believe the transformation from the old dormitories! |
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.. It's lovely to be here again, though it took me a while to get used to the new buildings! Brigid was super and the worship led by Jim just right. As always the food and hospitality were great. The weather was dry and I could make the most of my Wellingtons on two long walks! I needed this week of peace and quiet and got much more from it than I did the "Quiet Week" I came to last year. (Boundaries much more clear on a Retreat.) |
